- 3 years ago
So i have been shutting my face for awhile concerning wedding stuff and engagement, unless SO brings it up, and last weekend he brought up wedding locations ( in front of his parents, no less, which he never does!)after his parents got back from a trip to a resort in Mexico that we love.
On the drive home from work yesterday we were discussing what to get each other for Christmas, he asked what i wanted, i said i didn’t need anything, that anything that had us spending time together would be great, like a a date night of sorts :). When i asked him in return what he would like, he also said he didn’t need anything, then he jokingly threw in “unless you want to buy me an Omega watch”, so, also joking, i responded with ” you can have a watch when i get a ring”. figured the conversation would end there…but…
He responds with ” i’ve been looking, you know, just so that you’re not worried, i’m not going anywhere and i want this just as much as you do, so i’ve looked, i even know the differences between white gold, palladium, and platinum! and i know what i like, and i know what you like. i feel like you think i’ve been ignoring you, but it’s coming.” i was speechless, never has he talked about ring shopping or even looking online or anything, only that i am not going to be getting a “ring from any mall jewellery store”. i was pretty happy knowing he is starting to get serious about this :),and actually went to see rings in person!
Then, we get home and he goes “do you want to see it? what i looked at?” so i say sure and he shows me the website and the exact style of ring that i love….i am so excited! i know that once he buys it he won’t be able to keep it to himself for long!
sometimes it’s just nice to know that this “waiting” period will end and my past posts will just seem like silly little rants 🙂