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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Is anyone else putting off wedding related projects? I have exacly 140 days til my wedding and I have SO much I'm not willing to do at the moment, such as...

    * Finding a DJ

    * Nailing down our catering contract

    * Our engagement pictures

    * Finishing our registries

    * OOT bags

    * Bridesmaids dresses (they know about them, and they don't take that long to make where we're getting them, I just don't caaaaaaaare enough to get them the info)

    * Going to the Dr. for birth control

    * Figuring out what centerpieces I can do myself and which I'm going to leave up to the caterer

    * Making my flower girl wands

    What projects are YOU putting off?

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    *Figuring out if we want a DJ or iPod

    *Finding a new Officiant

    *Pre-addressing the Invites

    *Going BM dress shopping with BM number 3 (2/4 have their dresses, but this one wants to go with me)

    And...all the NWR moving stuff I only have a week to do. lol.

     
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    SanDiegoAli    9/18/2010   San Diego

    Oh my!  I have so many projects I've been putting off!  I need to get on the ball!!!

     
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    Magenta    July 31, 2010   Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

    invitation

    maps for the invitations

    bouquets and boutonnière

     

     
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    Rocktsrgn    May 22, 2010   living in Tucson, wedding in Atlanta

    We are almost 2 months out - yikes!  This is what I've been avoiding...

    -Addressing invitations.

    -Figuring out the decorations for our tent... reeeeally don't care anymore on this one.

    -Deciding on a final menu.

    -Designing our programs...well, I have them designed, but I have to figure out the wording... blech.

    -booking our flights...oops!

    -flowers...yawn.

    -presents for our parents, ring bearer and flower girl.  I kinda know what I'm doing, but I have to actually DO it, you see. 

     
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    Magenta    July 31, 2010   Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

    @Rocktsrgn i was also trying to figure out the decoration for the tent but after much thinking i decided not to spend the money on that... 

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    OMG I FORGOT ABOUT INVITES! We have them picked out, paid for, and they're being shipped next week but I don't want to address them!

     
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    greenleafmountain    7.31.2010  

    1. Flowers- I'm being indecisive

    2.  Renting chairs for outdoor ceremony and figuring out how they will get set up

    3. Addressing invites

    4. making programs and place cards- I have the stuff I just don't feel like doing it.

    5. His ring

    6. All the mens' clothing

    (those last two are not my fault, lol!)

     
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    mizrunzou    June 26, 2010   Kansas City, MO

    I addressed our invites this week...it took longer than I thought it would!

    Things I'm putting off....

    Playlist for Ceremony and Reception

    Ceremony Logisitics (whose reading what, when, etc)

    Programs (kinda have to know the order of the ceremony!)

    My diet :-p

     

     
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    RayB    May 15, 2010   North Carolina

    Vows

    Playlist for Ceremony & Reception

    Welcome Bags for out of town guests

    Wedding Program

    Parent's gifts

    Honoring our lost loved ones

     

     

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    This is really bad but Im putting off writing our ceremony! I just havent found the time/energy to do it recently!!!

    Im also putting off invitations....I figure theyll get done sooner or later!

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010   Albany, Western Australia
    1. Tags for the favors
    2. choosing flowers.. OMG, never knew that could be so blinging hard.. the right shade,what color, what flower...
    3. Deciding how I want my hair for the day - my BM is a hairdresser and thats the only thing she can go on about these days, saying. have you decided? x 100. I dont even know where to start 
    4. doing ceremony program.
    5. Ive written our ceremony but I dont want to edit it. Too hard basket.
    6. Making the stand for cupcakes.
    7. Addressing envelopes.

     

     
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    Toffee    January 15, 2011   Hayden, Id

    Right now I'm putting off working out a menu for FI to tweak for the wedding, because he can't make any decisions by himself. I'm also putting off looking at bakeries for our cake and decorations for the venue...oh and reserving the day at the venue. Bleh!

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    Um all of the above?

    We just figured out (not signed anything) our caterer and venue...that's enough until after we get back from vacation.

     
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    bridegrl    October 9, 2010   Monterey County, California

    lots of stuff....

    invites

    officiant

    birth control

    shoes

    flowers

    so many details..aghhhhhh!!!

    This is supposed to be fun, right?! lol..

     
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    Miss Britt    June 25, 2010   Kalamazoo, MI

    I addressed two thirds of my invites tonight!!  It took FOR-EV-ER.  Oh, and I found my guest book photo album at Barnes and Noble tonight.  I never get two things checked off my list.

    Still putting off favors, bridesmaid dress buying for my girls, and program design.  Booo.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    but it feels good when you get to check these things off the list!

     
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    I'm putting off the big important things. Like the timeline of the day/what is ACTUALLY going to happen at the reception (see Miss Scissors post on this exact thing.) Pretty much sums up where I'm at!

    KMSull - I'm sure you know this already, but I encourage you to do the birth control thing pronto...I found that it took me a couple of months to adjust to the hormonal changes, and you don't want to bee any more of an emotional mess on the big day! 

     
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    RxBrideToBe    August 21, 2010  

    everything! omg I have put off wedding planning for a month after I failed a pharmacology exam...now that it's spring break reality is starting to hit!!

    Get on that DJ...everything else on your list is not as time sensitive

    Me: gotta get groom/men tuxes figured out, rentals, and start making invitations

     

     
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    Rocktsrgn    May 22, 2010   living in Tucson, wedding in Atlanta

    @ Magenta - yeah, I'm really kind of over the whole decorations thing.  Our wedding is in a garden.  It's GORGEOUS.  Why the heck do we need more?  The correct answer is that we don't.  But I showed FI a picture of a beautifully decorated tent earlier, and now he reeeaally wants that.  I put him in charge of putting it together the day before, but now I've got to order the stuff.  Blech. 

    @everyone else - thanks for sharing this stuff!  It makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone in this.  :)

     
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    MerryMary    May 22, 2010   New Brunswick, Canada

    1) Figuring out ceremony music.

    2) Figuring out receptions toasts.

    3) Figuring out where the groomsmen are going to stay.

    4) Making seating charts and little place tags.  UGH UGH UGH.

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    - Booking our dj (yes, we've already found them and I'm just too lazy to book)

    - Blocking hotels

    - Finishing our wedding website

     
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    texasmeredith    July 2010  

    I go through phases where I want to get everything checked off my list and then I don't want to do any wedding stuff.  And why does every project involved 15 decisions I didn't know I was going to have to make and take 10 times longer than I thought?

    Things I need to do sooner than later:

    - nail down the paper stuff - invitations, thank you notes, escort cards, table numbers, menus, programs, etc, etc, etc

    - decide on and buy shower hostess gifts

    - find/hire the church soloist

    - select our music for the wedding

    - select our "songs" - first dance, father/daughter, mother/son, introduction song, etc, etc.

    - wedding favors

    - out of town bags

    I'm getting tired looking at my list!

     

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