Proposal AGAIN? What?

posted 3 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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584 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@klusu001:  To be honest, something about this whole post bothers me. I guess it’s because I am a firm believer in NOT breaking up, getting back together multiple times. I think it’s pointless to “re-propose” and if you were already engaged, why not just go back to that status since you’re planning the wedding anyhow. 

Post # 4
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539 posts
Busy bee

@klusu001:  i think it’s a sweet gesture 🙂 since your last engagement ended on a bad note i think it is perfectly reasonable to start “anew” so to speak. Just let him re-propose, it can’t hurt.

Post # 7
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539 posts
Busy bee

@klusu001:  good luck to you! i’m sure this proposal will be just as great as the first 🙂

Post # 8
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163 posts
Blushing bee

I think it’s a nice gesture but I’m curious why you broke up?

Post # 9
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3260 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@klusu001:  it seems weird but I bet it’s sort of a fresh start thing for him, and… Well, first world problems, lol. Just let him do it and enjoy, I’d say. 

Post # 10
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2129 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Baby #2 due Sep 2017

@klusu001:  It is admittedly a little weird, but I think it’s sweet  that he wants to cement his ‘re-commitment’ to you 🙂 Not many of us get two proposals.. I think you should enjoy the opportunity! I hope everything works out well for you both!!

Post # 13
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2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@klusu001:  I think a re-proposal is a great idea! A romantic gesture to show that all is now well between you two and you can begin your life together all over again. I actually really love it 🙂 

Just have patience, he probably wants to do something really memorable to wipe away any bad memories from your break-up.  

Post # 15
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295 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I think it’s a nice idea, and as mentioned above – possibly a way for him to officialy check in with you that you are ready to get back in the saddle and make the relationship work.

Carry on planning the wedding, I’m sure he is busy planning a special moment 😉

Post # 16
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714 posts
Busy bee

@klusu001:  I think it’s a sweet gesture that he wants to re-propose. 

But I can also understand your hesitation with the wedding-planning as long as your not “engaged”.

I would just tell him that you don’t care much about the surprise aspect of the proposal than you care about being engaged to him. (if that’s true; but it sounds like that to me in your posts). i don’t know if that would take the pressure off of things, but maybe even suggest a date for the re-proposal to him, saying “I know it’s hard to surprise me, so how about just agreeing on a proposal on this date / this week / until Feb 10th..”
All the best to you and your little family.  

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