No newer images
more by charmedlife
funny fiance's & honeymoons
Grinning Ear to Ear!
more in Waiting
No Longer Waiting...
My Centrepiece Idea...Thoughts??
more in Boards
wedding savings ideas (some shared, please post more!)

Proposal Fail

posted 2 weeks ago in Waiting

 
1.
Member
157 posts
Blushing bee
charmedlife   May 22, 2010  South Texas

I'm engaged now, but I thought I tell the hive about how I almost ruined the proposal not nce, but twice. My FI proposed on our 1 year anniv and had been talking about getting married for at least 6 months non stop. He kept joking about letting me know if he was going to keep me or not by 2013. I knew that we were going to get engaged sometime, but I was thinking closer to Christmastime, not our 1 year anniv. (in July)

Anyways, the week before we went down to the the beach with his family. He alsready told me that he wouldn't be taking an e-ring in his swim trunks. (Like I said he talked about getting engaged & the future just about everyday) So on the last night we went for a walk on the beach. We were talking about our relationship & holding hands when he just stopped & stood there. Onset awkward silence. This is how the convo went:

me and my big mouth- "So are you going to propose to me now?"

Him- "No, I told you I wasn't bringing a ring down to the beach.

Me- "Hmm, this is a wasted walk on the beach, let's just go back to the room."

We kept walking and he covered so well. He proposed the next evening on our anniversary. He had it all planned months in advance. Still, I felt bad for my somewhat twisted sense of humor.

 

 
2.
Member
1,008 posts
Bumble bee
MissAsB   June 6, 2009  Huntsville, AL

Aww congrats!  Guys are so sneaky like that!

 
3.
Member Icon
Member
138 posts
Blushing bee
trugem     TX

Awe... that sounds like something that I will do. At least you are engaged now so it was not a fail. Congrats!

 
4.
Member
808 posts
Busy bee
Charm bracelet   July 24, 2010  Placentia, CA

I bet this happens more than we think.  The girl ruins the moment and the guy is left with no choice but to put it off.  Good news is, you got engaged.  Congrats.

 
5.
Member
1,346 posts
Bumble bee
cheerful   September 2009 - eloped  

A friend of mine cancelled meeting her now-husband on the day he was going to propose because she was busy with work. He had a whole day planned of one activity leading in to the next and so on, culminating in a proposal. He was pretty bummed! (They, obviously, did eventually get engaged, but he planned something a lot more low-key)

 
6.
Member
157 posts
Blushing bee
charmedlife   May 22, 2010  South Texas

He had planned on proposing the next night, so I didn't delay it. I still don't know how he kept a strait face though. For the actual proposal he took me to the drive in theater where we had our first date. When it got dark the movie started and there were fireworks going off for the 4h of July. He kept talking to me and trying to get me to watc the fireworks & I told him that I couldn't listen to him, watch the fireworks, and the movie at the same time. That's before I realized what he was trying to do. It all worked out and actually fits us well.

 

Reply

You must log in to post.





Visit our sister sites Project Wedding
Wedding Songs
eHarmony Advice
Dating Advice
JustMommies
Pregnancy Calendar
Fertile Thoughts
Infertility Support
Copyright 2004-2009, eHarmony, Inc.
 


Sponsors
Local Boards


Find RegistryFind RegistryFind Registry

More
User Posts Today
KMSull 140
RecessionistaBride 125
crebre80 110
arizonabride 42
daydreamwanderer 40
lilyfaith 38
MissAsB 37
Charm bracelet 29
honeybun 26
LittlestBirds 23

Waiting

User Posts Today
crebre80 4
nurselindsey 3
boston_girl 2
lauralou852 1
RecessionistaBride 1
million 1
Charm bracelet 1
Minutiae 1
josephine1711 1
lilyfaith 1

More