(Closed) Proposal Imminent!

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Exciting! good luck waiting patiently

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Clearly, I’m no longer waiting 😉 but my best advice is just not to read into every little thing too much.  If he starts telling you how much he loves you and how beautiful you are, etc. try to just listen to what he’s saying and not start the whole “OMG this is IT!!” conversation in your head.  I know it’s hard!  But if you over analyze every little thing, you’ll miss out on those sweet moments that he may just be wanting to do something special for you “just because” or tell you how wonderful you are “just because” and not to lead up to the proposal.  This season of waiting is such a short one and will be gone before you know it!  Just breathe easy and try to cherish it…because once that ring is on your finger, things will get crazy!! 🙂  Most importantly, don’t rush him…let him plan the perfect proposal and then you can plan the perfect wedding! 🙂  Congratulations on the upcoming engagement!  It will be wonderful!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Exciting, indeed!!!  You’ve got more to go on than I do, but my SO and I recently discussed a summer 2014 wedding (wherein he actually said, “we don’t have to wait until summer”, I responded “well, something has to happen first”, he said “I know”  calm and cool like a cucumber) so a proposal has got to be coming REALLY soon.  I could be going crazy but I’ve decided that nothing good comes from it.  Of course, special weekends away it’s hard to not be a little more anxious, but I don’t want to spoil his surprise or set myself up for disappointment.

On that note, we’re going away this weekend just the two of us.  I’m focusing on the great time we’re going to have, with or without proposal!

I think we/waiting ladies should just revel in the excitement and enjoy it… this is (hopefully) a once in a lifetime experience and I want to bask in it!

 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Haha! I know the day my SO will propose on ( we picked it together and it is SOON now) and even with knowing I m getting really excited! The nice thing is that I can tell him how excited i am and we look forward to it together. But he said that he is planning a surprise, and the guy is the shy geek type first relationship and all, so I have absolutely NO idea what he is planning lol I cant wait to see this other side of him lol! I just asked him to be not too public or too big but I dont think I have to worry 🙂

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