- 4 years ago
When it comes to all those articles The Top X Signs That He Wants to Marry You. I’ve noticed that they are all the same and not the least bit helpful.
Your have met his family: Well yes I have, but we don’t do weekly dinners or anything. Same goes for my family. Neither of us are very close with our families.
He’s stopped parting and started showing his domestic side: He’s never been a partier while we’ve been together and has always been more domestic than me. He cooks, does dishes and laundry all on a regular basis.
He’s been sizing up your hand: Yes, he’s always been into playing with and holding my hands. Yes a ring of mine did go missing, but no it hasn’t found its way back to me. And no, no one has been asking about my ring size. Yes he has commented on my jewelry, but no he’s never asked opinions on my taste or suggested jewlery shopping.
He’s taken an interest in weddings: He was engaged twice so I think he (at least) respects marriage. When it comes to other people’s nuptials he doesn’t shy away from discussion nor does he get too involved.
He says “We” instead of “Me”: Yeah he’s always been this way. Tellinge me still plans to be with me at such and such a time, that he wants to take thos kind of trip together, etc.
He talks about your future: this is similar to the above. He has made it clear that he wants to spend his life with me. That he look forward to coming home to me. When it comes to children, we already each have one (from seperate parents) and know we don’t want more. So the future talk is pretty vague beyond “I look foward to coming home to you each night.”
He’s cut out lavish expenses: This one’s hard. Yes we did go out on more dates in the beginning. Yes he did buy Christmas gifts months in advance. But he also had more hours and money coming in.
Basically my conclusion on these articles are that they are just signs of commitment and responsibility. And not everyone that develops these traits are necessary concerned with marriage.
What do you guys Bee’s think? Can you think of any signs that are better indictors of marriage besides the one’s listed above. Or can you narrow down some of the one’s I’ve listened so that they are more easier to interpret. What are your examples?