- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
So awhile back I posted about 1 of my BM’s being MIA. That was a few months ago. Well here is the update and I am not happy. …..
She of course lives an hour away. I have texted her, called and sent e-mails. The last time I finally spoke to her, I explained to her that she needs to make sometime to come get her dress and make sure it fits her properly. She said ” I will be there no later that May 19th.” I said geart by the end of our talk she said ” I will be there ON MAY 19th” well we sat here pretty much most of the day. Low and behold she did not call , did not show up. No smoke signals nothing at all. Last week my Fiance and I went to meet up with everyone in the wedding party, we just like to meet and hang out. I texted her to tell her and invited her and her Boyfriend or Best Friend to meet up if they wanted. Well no call back no text. See where Im going here?As of today there are 50 days left, me and the other BM’s are starting to get a little pissed. Because no one hears from her. Then I find out the Maid/Matron of Honor has talked to her and told her ” If there is a problem, I can drive down and get you, or something like that” The Bridesmaid or Best Man responds ” no I’ll be fine” ok so no biggie. I think I have to resign myself to if she shows up and the dress doesnt fit, ok be a guest or ” why are you here” type deal. Im at my wits end with her and her ignoring stuff. Im sick of her telling me she will show up and does’nt, not calling to explain why she can’t do things. Its just getting on my last nerve. I know she is a Bridesmaid or Best Man and not a slave. But as a person she should have some form of respect for others!
Ok thanks for letting me vent. I dont feel any better but theres more , I just hate long reads lol.