Post # 1
It seems like a lot of couples engage in some form of public sex. I am kind of mixed about it. I guess my fear is getting caught or the wrong person seeing. I have a friend who will do it just about anywhere with her boyfriend. I keep thinking they will get caught. I would think part of the thrill is someone seeing something or thinking they saw something.
What do you think about it? Is there a limit about how far is too far?
Post # 3
Darling Husband and I have had sex in public, but not in the middle of the street or anything crazy. We have had sex on hotel balconies and one time in a movie theater.
Post # 4
I used to be very into it, but my fi is slooooow moving and not very….stretchy. And he’s a ball of nerves. It wouldn’t work with him.
But I’m a fan, start slow your backyard. It’s awesome.
Post # 5
well I’m not as experienced in this as many others, but I would say if you’re interested, start off slow – park somewhere remote – even your own garage or backyard if you have one?
Darling Husband and I got naughty on our honeymoon in a massage hut way off the normally-travelled paths on the resort. We scoped it out during the day, and went back that night, lol. The thing to remember is most people aren’t walking around looking for people having sex – that’s why it’s easy to get away with. It’s not something you’re waiting for or expecting to see.
Too far for me is anything where people are in close proximity and the chance is high that you’ll be caught. I’d be too worried about that to enjoy the other happenings 🙂
Post # 6
when i hear of sex on hotel balconies i think of this story a few months ago, complete with video. http://www.ntnews.com.au/article/2011/09/29/263611_ntnews.html
im all for fun sex but i wouldnt bore strangers with my antics
Post # 7
I totally get the appeal, but it’s not for me. To enjoy myself I need to be completely comfortable and uninhibited. If I had to be quiet, or couldn’t move around easily, the moment so to speak, would be gone. Plus in the age of cell phone cameras and YouTube, I’d pretty much die if my sexcapades ended up being seen by the wrong person.
Post # 9
This thread makes me think of senior year in high school. We were on a field trip to a cemetary (where Rick james is buried) for a class, and a bunch of students saw two people having sex next to a mausoleom.
Post # 10
It’s not really for us, although the idea sounds kind of naughty and fun. We’ve made out heavily in public, and did have sex in the woods once, but it was on his family property, so no one was around. We also have done oral in his old truck, but that was on an abandoned road late at night. That’s about the most public we’ve ever gone. We also kept clothes on just in case anyone came by at a “bad time.”
I’m a teacher and he works for the government, so if we were ever arrested for public sex, it would likely be very damaging to our careers, especially for him. As far as how far is too far, the only boundary that comes to mind is not in front of kids or if people could actually see anatomy and the sex act occuring. That’s just indecent, IMO.
Post # 11
@eloping: I don’t think this is quite what I meant. This cracked me up.
Post # 13
Eebie jeebies! I don’t want any ghosts watching that!
Post # 14
Done it, but not really for us. I guess you never know unless you try it!
Post # 15
@nutMeg13: when I read this my face did something very strange and then my body kind of curled up. seems weird.