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Okay, so I need to find heels for my wedding. I really want purple ones. Purple is my favorite color and is one of the colors for our wedding.

My problem is I am REALLY picky. :(

I don't want a platform. I don't want light purple. I don't want them to be taller than 3.75". I don't want pointy toes or square toes.

I would prefer they weren't peep toe. Ideally, they would be closed toe. I can live with a peep toe though. I like ankle straps so that I don't feel like I'm going to walk out of my shoes (lol) but it's not necessary. I'd also prefer they were more "plain" because my sister is making me a simple peacock shoe clip.

I do want a rounded toe. I do want a dark or vibrant purple.

Unfortunately, it seems that platforms are all the rage! And bows on the toes.

Other options are:

-Dyeable shoes. I have no problem with this, but wonder if they come out to a nice color or if I'll constantly want to redye them? lol

-Get white shoes from the place I'm getting my dress from and add something purple to them? They have a really good deal where if your dress costs between 500$ and 1500$, they take up to 50$ off your shoes (and up to 150$ off your veil but that's not relevant lol). I found a pair of white ones that I like from there. If this is what I do, what could I do to make them more 'me'? Just purple glitter on the soles or something else?

Any ideas/suggestions are welcome. And sorry if I sound like a big whiner! haha :) Thanks for listening!

Here are some purple heels I liked. They're a little different. They don't have my size and I can't seem to find them anywhere else? http://www.zappos.com/product/7640366/color/64093

I like the color of these, but not the platform lol. http://www.zappos.com/gabriella-rocha-quilla-purple-patent

And these are the white ones from the place I'm getting my dress. http://www.houseofbrides.com/showproduct.aspx?ProductID=67788&catid=357&distid=46&SEName=

suede: http://www.dsw.com/shoe/vaneli+undine+pump?prodId=226675&productRef=SEARCH

more of a plum color: http://www.dsw.com/shoe/lulu+townsend+faolia+pump?prodId=dsw12prod3680172&productRef=SEARCH

cute, but has a flower thing on front: http://www.dsw.com/shoe/fergalicious+blossom+pump?prodId=dsw12prod3680155&productRef=SEARCH

love these, but again, more plum: http://www.dsw.com/shoe/kelly+.and.+katie+dahlia+pump?prodId=212669&productRef=SEARCH

leather: http://www.endless.com/DV-Dolce-Vita-Womens-Notty/dp/B005A37TM4

weird heel, but pretty color: http://www.endless.com/Steve-Madden-Womens-Corprate-Pump/dp/B005C2WR4I

only available in a 6: http://www.endless.com/Butter-TAYLOR-Womens-Taylor-Pump/dp/B0027IQZIY

kate spades to die for - though maybe the toe is too pointy. but they're sooo gorgeous: http://www.endless.com/Kate-Spade-York-Womens-Tilly/dp/B004PXRNOO

suede cole haans: http://www.endless.com/Cole-Haan-Air-Talia-Pump/dp/B0039MIVHU

reallllly bright: http://www.endless.com/Steve-Madden-Womens-Unityy-Pump/dp/B005DPIGTY

AH! You guys are awesome! Thank you so much. I'm going to go look at all of them now lol

ETA: Okay you both definitely hit the nail on the head with these! I've picked out a few from both and now I just need to find out which are FIs favorite! Again, thank you thank you thank you!