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Purple or Gray ???

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    janelle.toheriri    October 27, 2012   Pahiatua, New Zealand

    Hi, I am having trouble choosing bridesmaid colours, my wedding colours are black white purple silver & gray..... should i go gray or purple both colours have advantages & disadvantages...... im so stuck :

    (Purple or Gray ??? :  wedding purple gray wedding bridesmaid dress Purple DressPurple or Gray ??? :  wedding purple gray wedding bridesmaid dress Photo

     
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    Gabrielle123    November 5, 2011  

    you sound like me 6 months ago! Our colors are grey and dark purple and I didn't know which one I wanted for the BM dress.

    I ended up going for the purple dress but I kind of regret it. I love the look of a grey dress with dark purple flowers. I think that would look absolutely beautiful. I say gray!

    You should add a poll :)

    Good luck!

     
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    TinyTina    June 2012   Albany, NY

    Ohhh we have similar colors! Personally, I really love the look of gray dresses, but when I brought it up to my girls they ALL vetoed it. :( They said it would look too depressing if they were wearing gray. Pffff, what do they know? Anyways, since they all said they disliked it, we're going with purple. I do love gray dresses though... PP is right, it looks so pretty with the pop of purple flowers!

     
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    MsLotus    June 8, 2012   Dallas

    I'm going for a similar color palette too! I love both of those dresses, but I think I want to figure out a way to bring in lighter colored dresses - champagne.  And have my MOH wear a dark purple and my younger sister Mauve...idk still trying to put it all together! I'd love to see ya'll's inspiration boards!

     
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    sarahbabs    September 8, 2012   NYC, wedding in the Hudson Valley

    Grey!!  Definitely!

     
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    medsie35    March 10, 2012  

    I have the same colors too! I decided on grey dresses and I am having them wear dark purple pashminas and have purple flowers. I just thought the grey would be more timeless looking.

     
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    janelle.toheriri    October 27, 2012   Pahiatua, New Zealand

    Wow thankyou guys for all your awesome comments.... it is such a hard decision but its good to know when others are or have been in the same place as me... MsLotus i will try put up inspration board so you can check it out.... yes i loved the champane colour 2 :) that was my first choice i made and have changed 2 times already ha ha

    I hope this link works :)

    http://smilebox.com/playBlog/4d6a59304e54457a4f44673d0d0a&blogview=true

     
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    MidnightSun    November 16, 2012  

    I think the purple is more universally flattering than the gray. Gray can easily wash somebody out if it's not the right shade for them.

     
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    baletrina    May 27, 2012   Chicago, Illinois

    I personally love grey. :)

    Our colors are charcoal grey and pink.  Don't tell your BM's they will wear their dress again but the chances of them wearing a neutral again over a color is pretty high. 

    Here is the ones we choose.

    Purple or Gray ??? :  wedding purple gray wedding bridesmaid dress 3032

     
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    heather5743    March 10, 2012  

    We're doing gray.  Alfred Sung Ebony to be exact.

    Purple or Gray ??? :  wedding purple gray wedding bridesmaid dress BM Dresses Final

     
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    xicaB    September 26, 2012   San Francisco

    Definitely gray! A few weekends ago I was a bridesmaid at my friends wedding and we wore gray dresses. It made everything else pop, color wise. Our shoes and bouquets. I was pleasently surprised.

     
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    janelle.toheriri    October 27, 2012   Pahiatua, New Zealand

    baletrina Your dress is stunning!! It is such a hard decision you will find a purple one you like then you will see a gray one you like ha ha.

    The only thing i was worried about having the gray is.... will it look ok at the beach? we are going to do our reception on the beach???

     
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    MsLotus    June 8, 2012   Dallas

    @janelle.toheriri:  Thanks! I have alot of those pictures saved too! lol

     
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    WolvLove    September 2013  

    I love the grey! and love the idea of having the purple be present in the flowers and/or shoes.

     
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    pinklemonade12    June 12, 2011   Canada

    I prefer the grey dresses because everyone I know has had a purple wedding lately. Purple is gorgeous, but I have yet to see bridesmaids in real life wearing grey and I think it would be a refreshing change and a colour that you won't look back on and wonder why on earth you picked it lol. And it's soo easy to match things to!

     
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    Treejewel19    May 18, 2012   Sonoma County, CA

    @MidnightSun:Agreed, gray is a hard color to pull off for certain skin tones.

    I had a similar issue with champagne and pink. I opted for pink because like purple it is more flattering on a wider number of people.

    Couldn't you do gray shoes to tie it in?

     
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    janelle.toheriri    October 27, 2012   Pahiatua, New Zealand

    After finding this photo i think this is what i want :)

     

    (i do change my mind ALOT)Purple or Gray ??? :  wedding purple gray wedding bridesmaid dress ImagesCARZYQCU

     
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    yelle418    October 27, 2012   Northern California

    I know this thread is old . . but I am doing the same colors can't decide which color BM dress to choose. . . ideally i would like a purple-gray! Haha! I'm also very indecisive. . .

     

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