- 5 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014
I need to vent
i am feeling so annoyed and low right now because of the amount of messages, texts, emails etc I have received from guests for my wedding, hens and bridal shower, commenting on where they will be seated at the reception, who will be transporting them to the hens night… everything
i would be totally ok to accommodate people’s requests for the seating arrangements, price of the hens night things like that, and I really have been. But then when I get requests or messages from girls who are meant to be my closest friends demanding that we have certain strippers at my hens and that they get attention from those strippers, or demands that certain people are invited AND that they be seated next to them, frankly I get quickly frustrated! I don’t even want a stripper at my hens!!! I do not want a hens with naked men, I just don’t! Have they even asked whether I would like one!? No! What the hell!?
I just can’t believe the type of requests I am getting, not to mention that now my poor Maid/Matron of Honor is getting emails from my guests in regards to the hens and bridal shower requesting that the date be changed (after the invites have already be sent) because they can’t make it because they have planned a last minute holiday (and yes this was sent by my in-laws after my fiancé already informed them of the date and why we would not be available to attend). They’re being just as difficult as the crazy woman who requested her own stripper!
i am so over it. My fiancé feels terrible for me and I don’t want him to. I just honestly feel like I want this whole process to be over so that I can be married to him and WE can get on with OUR lives together and go back to not worrying about pleasing other people.
i just want to scream at these people this is my and my fiances special day NOT THEIRS and I would not request to be seated in the centre of the room with my front facing direct on so that I don’t need to stretch my neck while I’m seated next to great aunt Martha so I can convince her that I’m the best person to write her will to and that I dont pay for my share of the hens while I request a topless waiter to my own, at their wedding! Like c’mon girls, what don’t you understand!?
im about to skip the whole big day and run away to a secluded island with the man I love so I don’t have to deal with all this crazy guest drama!! Convince me not to! Please!