- 7 years ago
Do you ever feel like your the one putting most of the effort into making plans to see each other? I went on a trip with a friend and on the way back (after 10 hrs on the road) my SO was begging me to come see him, which would have been another 1.5 hrs in the car, and I said no that he could come visit me since he’d been home all day but he wanted me to do all the traveling (obviously I said no). I typically find myself arranging everything, or traveling to him, etc, he doesn’t go out of his way to plan anything very often. He’s in the military so some of that is attributed to that which can’t be helped, but on times that he has breaks he waits till the last minute to decide he wants to see me and just expects that I’ll jump up and run (and unless he has a VERY good reason why he couldn’t ask until the last minute, I usually say no), but it still continues…anyone else’s SO/FI/DH do these things?