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Q's about St Patrick's Cathedral

posted 3 years ago in New York City
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    PrincessBride    11/07/09  

    Hey Gals!

    I am in the beginning phases of wedding planning and I would love to get married in St Patrick's Cathedral.  I do not belong to the parish, and while I am a practicing Catholic, my fiance is not.  We have already agreed that our children would be raised Catholic.  Also, my uncle is a Catholic deacon in NJ, would they let him perform the service?  Lastly, does anyone know how much their fee is?  Thanks a million!

     

     
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    CarolineG    10/12/2008   Phoenix, AZ

    Like most Catholic churches, St. Pat's is pretty strict about what can and can't go on during a marriage ceremony, which is a sacred rite up there with Baptism, First Communion, Confirmation, and the Last Rites. For example, only religious music can be played - meaning "Here Comes The Bride" is out because it is secular. Also, no outside musicians are allowed - they supply their own.

    You have to interview to get a spot, so they can make sure you're JC worthy, I guess  : )  Interviews must take place at least one year prior to your wedding.

    But here's the catch - you have to be a current parishoner, or live within the parish boundaries to have your wedding there - so if you don't live in the area, you're SOL. The minimum donation for the ceremony is $2000. If they don't allow outside musicians, it is highly unlikely they allow outside clergy, so I think your uncle is out of the question.

    Give them a call and ask your questions...

    212-753-2261 

     

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