Question about porn!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Personally to me most porn out there is over the top really bad acting.  It is mostly doesn’t matter if  you can actually act or not since it is about the having sex.  There supposedly porn out there for women that has some kinds of story to it  I haven’t seen it myself 

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

Kacey23:  My husband and I dislike porn. My last serious boyfriend before my husband was a porn addict though. Personally, I think porn makes sex look really ugly. There is also a huge double standard(pun intended). Porn women have to be hot, but as long as porn guys have a big schlong, they can look like treasure troll. Totally NOT sexy.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

i think you should find a silly showtime porno. Very silly and not hardcore. We never watch the whole thing. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

So the one and only one I’ve seen is the “Pirate Porn” (not sure about the title, but it’s obvious when googled), vaguely based off Pirates of the Carribbean. Apparently it won all the porn awards for that year and had a pseudo-plot (and really bad CGI lol). It wasn’t too scarring and gave me some idea of what was up. That being said, I was never interested in watching more 🙂

Detail-wise – I first watched it with a group of girls and one of their boyfriends (poor guy). Then I watched it with my boyfriend at the time and we made it maybe 10 minutes despite my desire to show him some of the ludicrous parts. He said the worst thing was watching porn after cumming, so we never made it to the end and he never saw the ‘grand finale’ lol.

I threaten to show DH, but never have . . not quite worth buying it . . .

Like pp said, my first boyfriend was a porn addict and I was very sensitive about it, but after seeing it, I was like OHHH no wonder guys have no idea what they are doing. Bad skillz man. Bad skillz in porn. And the dudes are sometimes barely even hard . . yeah, not for me, but I suggest picking the ‘best of the best’ just to get educated if you are curious :). It’s not as scarring as I expected, but also not something I’m interested in. A netflix account as a wedding gift has made us a bit more risque, but we still get bored with porn so . . .eh. You aren’t missing anything. Just think about weird graphic sex where they have to do things at odd angles for the camera, and you get the idea.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Not a huge fan, but  when we watch, I prefer the amateur stuff.  It feels more real.  Honestly though, I get a lot more turned on by a good sex scene in a movie than by any porn I’ve watced.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Bridey77:  THANK YOU! I’m not at all preachy or uptight about sex. My biggest issue is that once you get just a little information about the porn industry, it quickly stops being about sexy-sex and is about violence, power, manipulation, and completely devoid of any tenderness or human dignity.

Porn isn’t part of our sexual lifestyle, and if FI had the audacity of seriously suggesting it…. no he just wouldn’t. He knows me better than to do that. I get guys like porn, heck women do too. FI talks about when he does look at porn (and I see the browser history on computer, so I know when he does) and I don’t gve him a hard time about it because it happens like once a year, during my period, and more importantly, I want to be able to talk about that stuff with him, should it come up. 

Our lovelife is romantic, spontaneous, tender, sensual, and dirty in just the way we like it. We are both very comfortable with each other so there is no need for “extra stimuli”, so to speak. I would never want to incorporate something that would vulgarize what we do with our bodies. 

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