Post # 1
So I had my shower before the wedding and while I probably could have rushed through the thank you cards, I didn’t. I was crazy with work and last minute wedding details. Now the wedding has passed and Im wondering if I should still do seperate cards for the shower and the wedding or would it be inappropriate to send one card thanking them for both the shower and wedding gift.
Post # 3
@mrsflanagan2be: The proper manner in which to do this is to send a separate note thanking the guest for each occasion/gift. Because of that, this is what I would advise you to do.
Post # 4
@mrsflanagan2be: Yes. They went shopping twice, and spent money twice, and came to your events twice. The least you can do is thank them twice.
They don’t deserved to be short changed in the thank yous because you didn’t send them on the timeline you wanted.