- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
Okay so my wedding is in Massachusetts with a lot of guests from Long Island NY and some from even further south. My dad is paying so basically what he says goes but I’m worried about the drink situation. He wants just wine on the tables and a champagne toast which was included in the package. This would mean guests would pay for their own soda and juice or any non-alcoholic drink besides water. I really don’t want my guests to have to pay for their non-alcoholic drinks (it will cost $500 to provide it for everyone) My dad is really against it so I think we’ll just pay for it ourselves so there will be wine and all the usual beverages. Do you think it’s a waste for me to want to pay for it since my dad won’t? (also I talked to my Future Mother-In-Law about it and she wants to give us the money to pay for it but I don’t want to offend my dad by having them pay directly).