(Closed) Question? Do bridal party members not get invites?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I sent my wedding party invites.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@agerard23: Everyone is getting an invitation. Bridal party, officiant, parents, etc. Even had one sent to myself.

When I was a bridesmaid (and my FI was a groomsman) in the same wedding, we still got an invitation.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I also asked this also previously, and most of the girls said that they sent it to them. That’s what i’m doing.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Mackinaw Valley Vineyard; Bloomington Center for the Performing Arts

I’ve never heard of this, I thought everyone got an invite.  Maybe they just ran out and figured your FI wouldn’t miss not getting one?  Still strange to me though.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’ve been in…I think it is 6 weddings…. and always got an invite. Plus I will be sending them to my wedding party as well.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper

I’ve never heard of that before – seems like fuzzy logic to me.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

As far as I was and am concerned, EVERYONE gets an invite, regardless of whether they are a guest, the pastor, in the wedding party, or whatever.

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

We sent invites to our BP. As far as I’m concerned, they’re still guests just more important. I didn’t get an invite to my friends wedding in which I was a bridesmaid and I thought it was (dare I say…) the “t” word. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

We are sending invited to everyone.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Why *wouldn’t* you send the invite? Like, are they too expensive? Or did she run out? weird… (I wouldn’t even consider not sending one, but I honestly can’t remember if I ever got one for the weddings I’ve been in.)

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

This happened to us before because the bride didn’t order enough invitations…

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Why would you not send an invite to the wedding party? Never heard of that before. We sent invites to everyone!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m sending them to all my BP, they are also all invited with guests. I didn’t get one for the wedding I was in last year, but she ran out of invites after her MIL added another 10 ppl to the list…

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