(Closed) QUESTION: Does being married change the sex?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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2693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

It changed for us in that it got even better.  Almost 2 months in, there is still that thrill of “this is my husband“.  It’s been a lot of fun, which is nice because I didn’t think there was anyway we could improve on what we had before getting married, but it’s even more amazing now! 

Yes, a much greater sense of connection.  It’s a really special feeling.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

TBH, sex has been better & more frequent since getting married. Almost like saying our vows made it more okay to be dirtier 😉 And yes- when we’re simply ‘making love’ it’s a much deeper connection now than it ever was.

Post # 6
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2010 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think this s a great question!!

Over the years ur sex life had changed, it was dirtier and faster thendeepens more emotional, and now it’s more fun and spicy.

Looking forward to after we are married.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Hmm, interesting. I’ve often wondered about this too. I’ll be watching this thread to see what everyone has to say!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We were together and sexually active for 6 years before getting married, living together for the last two of them, and I really didn’t think it could get any better than it was. But if 9 months is enough to go on, it definitely has. Since getting married, we’re sweeter to each other, we argue less often, and we feel more connected in general, and that has definitely spilled over into the bedroom as well. I don’t want to go into detail, but I feel like since getting married we have this deep, implicit trust in each other that has led us to be more adventurous. I was a teeny bit worried that married sex would be less exciting, but it’s been really cool to see even that aspect of our relationship improve since we got married.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Married sex is great.  Even when it isn’t great, it’s great that you know 100% that he’s not going anywhere, so you can let loose, which makes it better!

We’ve only been married a couple months and he’s been gone for a week now on a trip for work and I want me some of that.  🙂

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I echo the PPs. It is different, in a good way. More often, more emotional, and more fun 😉 

@CaptainSpaulding: Ditto. We can be a little crazier now. I think somebody made the comment on the board once that their husband said there was no such thing as too wild/dirty with your spouse and that “it’s not slutty if it’s with your spouse.” Lol.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

No, but having a baby sure does!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@HappyBee33:  Probably a bad way, but only in that having a baby makes it much more difficult to find time to do when you both are so exhausted. I gave birth in Feb and still have not slept for more than 5 hours at a time! That said, when it does happen, it makes it more special! You also can’t do it for the first 6 weeksafter giving birth and when you start doing it again, it hurts for a while!

 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

We waiting until we were married to have sex so it def changed!!! It is amazing.. intimate, loving and everything I could have wanted… I love knowing that we are comitted to each other and that I am the only women he will be with for the rest ofhis life!

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