Post # 1
Hello Bees! I am new here and need your help.
We haven’t told anyone we are engaged yet because we would like to have a date to go along with the announcements. (Helps to cut out the 20 questions on when and where from everyone)
My FI wants to get married in 2014 but Numerlogicly(if thats a word) our perfect year is 2015.. Should we wait till then and not rush?
Thank you in advance for your help!!
Post # 3
Um, I’m not trying to be rude, but how does it matter? What does your “perfect year” mean?
Post # 4
@SoInLoveandReady: my family is really superstitious, so we picked out date based on what would be more auspicious. In the end, you have to go with the date that you think is perfect, just like you had to wait for the perfect guy.
Post # 5
Well it really all depends on how much faith you put in numerology. Personally I don’t put a lot of faith in it. I think it’s superstition and nothing more. So to me, it doesn’t matter. If the calendar and venue availability had worked out that I was married on a Friday the 13th, I would not have thought twice about it. Even if 100 black cats showed up. But if you believe in it, then I would imagine it is a lot more important.
Post # 6
I asked for October b/c I really wanted a fall-themed wedding.
We picked the 20th b/c it was what our dream venue had open.
Post # 7
I wouldn’t bother with numerology, personally. Our date is the anniversary of our first date. 2013 because I wasn’t waiting any longer than that!
Post # 8
My FI is much more into numbers, so his input was based on having a number that he liked vs numerology. He really didn’t like 13 so with that and the fact that a year gives us more time to save and plan we went with 2/14/2014, he likes those numbers, it is fun to get married on Valentine’s Day and our venue was available.
Post # 9
@abbie017: Its the best possible date and year for the two to start the rest of their lives together if you believe in Astrology and Numerology. It’s based on your birthdays
Post # 10
@housebee: Thank you that was well said
Post # 11
How fast do you want to get married? Would it kill you to wait the extra year? How important are your beliefs? Only you can answer these questions.
Post # 12
Thanks everyone for the comments! Im still learning how to use this site.. sorry Im slow.
Post # 13
You should go with whatever date that you want. If you don’t mind waiting until 2015 then go for it. If you want to get married in 2014, then that is fine too.
Post # 14
I think it depends on how much faith you place in it. Personally, I made a big deal out of making sure our wedding date was divisible by three. It’s just been an important number in our lives and so it was something I focused on. I don’t know if I would have waited a whole year more for a date, though. Do you care if you have an even longer engagement?