- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2015
Hi bees! I’m new to wedding planning and my fiance and I have just begun looking for wedding venues. I’m the first one of my cousins on my mom’s side to get married, and as such I have a few questions that haven’t come up before in looking for venues. One of the venues that came up in our search (price fit, location, stunning venue, close to family) is also a venue at which my aunt had her wedding reception to her first husband back in the 80s. She’s been happily remarried for about 10 years now, but the last thing I would want to do is make anyone feel uncomfortable at the venue we choose.
What do you think is the best way to handle? Should I automatically take it off my list, ask her her thoughts about it, or is this something you’ve dealt with in choosing venues? I have a huge extended, blended family and all of them have been married in the same general area in CT so I’m sure it’s an issue that will come up again and again down the road. Any advice is appreciated!