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Question on wedding invites for divorced parents on in-laws side

posted 1 year ago in Etiquette
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    hhcheung2000       San Diego, CA

    Does anyone know what the proper ettiquette is on how invites should be written concerning in-laws that are divorced?  Are both parties on the in-laws side supposed to be added or just the father's?  And what if the future father-in-law and has a girlfriend and not a wife?

     
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    julies1949      

    There are many variations depending on if the bride's parents are paying for the wedding and you want to indicate they are the hosts; or, both sets of parents are hosting, or, the bride and groom are paying and want to indicate who the parents are.

    Is the groom's mother remarried?

    I wouldn't include the girlfriend.

    I would word it like this if the bride's parents are hosting the wedding and the groom's mother is remarried:

    Mr. and Mrs. Robert Allen Brooks
    request the honour of your presence
    at the marriage of their daughter
    Melissa Ann
    to
    William James Russo
    son of
    Mrs. Joanne Ruth Wilson (Joanne Ruth Russo if not remarried)
    and
    Mr. Anthony Thomas Russo

    etc etc etc

     See these links for some suggestions:

    http://www.southworth.com/page.php?id=127

    http://www.formal-invitations.com/invitation-text.html#divorced

    http://www.usabride.com/wedplan/a_inv_word.html

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    I've always seen it as the above post. Remarried or not, only the grooms parents current legal name is listed, not the new spouses etc.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    My dad is remarried and this is how I did mine.

    Mr. John Smith & Ms. Barbara Smith request the honour of your presence....

     
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    hhcheung2000       San Diego, CA

    I was just wondering since I wanted to send out invites pretty soon.

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    I thought you were already married? :)

     
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    hhcheung2000       San Diego, CA

    I am already married.  I'm trying to do research for my friend since I'm a bridesmaid for her wedding.

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    We are doing "Together with their parents" and I know some people do "Together with their families"

     

    My parents are divorced and dad is remarried so I didnt want it to be complicated!

     

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