Post # 1
Okay, so I’m not really that good at all this planning stuff..My questions are….
I will be getting ready at my moms house and my FH is getting ready at our apartment about 10 minutes away…..Now my questions are probably so dumb…Does my Father stay at my moms house all day with me and my BMs or does he go by to see my FH at the apartment. Also my two brothers are GM in the wedding..Do they spend some time with me in the morning or just go straight to the apartment with my FH to get ready and jump in the limo? Its probably all up to them but I want some structure.
Should I have my and FH grandfathers in Tux’s or Suits?? Should they come with the Groomsmen to the tux shop or should they just go about getting their suit on their own??
Third Question and last 😉
My grandmother and grandfather are divorced (39 years) and they do not have a problem with eachother but they do not speak. My grandmother mentioned to me that she does not want to walk down the isle with him at the church…kind of throws me off because they are both single. Who should I have them walk up with or should I ask her to walk down with him for me??
Post # 3
1. Have a cousin or sibling or an usher walk them down.
2. My brother was a groommans at my wedding we had a quick check in and then when and spent the day with the bridal party. I would suggest your brothers do the same, I just think it’s good so the have bonding time and can introduce themselves to the other groomsman if they don’t know them.
3. My Parents were around all morning and actually took my whole bridal party out for brunch. They then went to their room to get ready, and my mom came over dress to get her hair and makeup done, and because she wanted to be with me to put on my dress. Due to the fact there there were other women getting dressed my Dad came after all the hoopla was over.
4. As for the Tux issue simple, just ask the two grandfathers for their preferance.
Post # 4
1- My Dad stayed at the hotel where I got ready that morning. We had breakfast together, just him and I, the morning of my wedding!
2- They should find their own suits (unless your wedding is black tie or white tie, then they should find their own tuxes)
3- Have them walk up alone or have groomsmen escort them to their seats. Or let them sit before the ceremony starts!
Post # 5
-my dad stopped by my DH while he was getting ready and then came to say good bye before we left for pictures
-my brother got ready with DH and the rest of the GMs. Figured he wouldn’t want to hang it with a bunch of girls!
-ask what they prefer. Our grandparents wore their own suits.
-our grandparents were seated before the ceremony started. How would they feel about walking in with your mom? One on each side? Otherwise you could have an usher escort them.