(Closed) Quick, I need your opinions!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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983 posts
Busy bee

If I were to think of getting revenge and cheating, I’d just leave him and be done with it instead.  No offense, but only a bitch would give revenge. Leave and move on. No sense in getting hurt or hurting others more with revenge.

Post # 4
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1622 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I might think about cheating because I would feel like my confidence had just taken a major hit, but I wouldn’t want to do it to get revenge.  No matter what my husband does, I never want to hurt him.  I feel disappointment in him, angry with him, hurt by him, and those feelings and my expression of them are enough to show him how much he betrayed me without resorting to betraying him back. 

Post # 5
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1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@littlefe:  That’s a normal reaction for revenge. lol…. But it doesn’t help, just mskes the situation worse. The best thing you can do is break up or separateuntil you can trust him again. If he truly loves you and its was a one time thing. But it shouldn’t have ever happened in the first place. Sorry to hear that. 

Post # 6
Member
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it would be time to move on….I wouldn’t cheat just to get revenge.  

Post # 7
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8153 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would probably break it off.

Post # 8
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11753 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@littlefe:  no I wouldn’t get revenge by cheating – that is immature and passive agressive. 2 wrongs don’t make a right.  I’d leave him personally but if I was going to stay and try to work through it, I wouldn’t cheat for revenge.  Anyone that would think of doing that clearly doesn’t want to work through it and should just leave.  

Post # 9
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4715 posts
Honey bee

Nope, never. I’d never think of cheating just to get “revenge” or get even.

Because, if you two decide to work it out, then you’ve got that on your shoulders, instead of being innocent. 

Post # 10
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6512 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I found out an ex was cheating on me, and dumped him immediately.  But one of my thoughts was “That FUCKER!  I could have cheated on him so many times, and I never did!”

Post # 11
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3000 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

hmmm it might cross my mind, an eye for an eye kind of thing.  But we all know 2 wrongs don’t make a right.  I think it would run through my mind though!

Post # 14
Member
7653 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would never cheat, BUT would it be acceptable for you if I could I still use the “break it off” line if I were talking about his manhood? Because that is how I would want to handle the situation.

Post # 16
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2866 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think it’s normal to be angry and for some people after anger comes wanting to hit back. Thinking isn’t doing so as long as you don’t plan on doing it then think away. 

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