(Closed) Quick question: Should I send an invite?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
396 posts
Helper bee

I had a similar situation, and I will be sending the invite to the couple.

Post # 4
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you should just send one because it’s nice to include them. I don’t think a wedding invitation seems pushy. 

Post # 5
3625 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would send one. We have some family members who told me back when we did Save-The-Date Cards that they wouldn’t be able to come and we sent them all invitations anyway. It’s a nice thing to do and they would still feel included and who knows, maybe they’ll send you a little gift too.

Post # 7
2849 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I agree that you should send an invite to them. Some people like to keep the invitations for sentimental reasons. Plus, it will make them feel included, even if they can’t be there.

Post # 8
986 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t.  I wouldn’t want the. To think I was just looking for a gift. Not that you are but I would worry they might think that.   Or maybe call them and say “hey I was just about thesend invites and I know you said ou might be away is they any chance you will be around should I send an invite anyway? “


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