(Closed) Quite annoyed with FI…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

lol, what a mess! Good Luck, I say turn up that work out DVD and have fun with it ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Future Mrs K:  I agree. I say turn on the workout dvd and crank it up really loud. That way they will know how you felt last night ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ohh, I’d definitely turn it up!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

They were being really inconsiderate to you.  I’d have probably marched over to the computer, pulled the plug out of the wall, and said, “Party’s over.  Be quiet and go to bed.  NOW!” In the morning, I’d bitch both of them out over the dirty dishes.  

Oh, and college buddy would be sent home and never invited to stay over again.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Have fun with him. its time for a hangover wakeup. I also vote that the dog jumps on him and licks him till he wakes up.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Dooooo iiiiittt.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@naturalysam:  “its time for a hangover wakeup.”  Haha! That’s exactly what I was thinking!

I say, go ahead and put your work out DVD in.  If it wakes him up, it wakes him up.  He chose to pass out on the couch when you specifically told him to choose a bedroom.

I’ve gone through things like this with my FI (up late, loud music, mess everywhere the next morning), and the best way to let him know you don’t appreciate it is when he’s sober.  Drunk FIs don’t care about cleanliness or keeping quiet.  Annoying, but true.

Also, don’t touch any of those dishes!  Your FI dirtied them, he can clean them. ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Mother of the Bride's residence

Ooooh, I’d be doing the hangover wakeup too. I actually watched my aunt do the best hangover wakeup I’ve ever seen — my uncle was passed out on the couch so she opted to start vaccuming, right next to his face. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Make him do the work out with you! ahahaha. 

I have had to deal with this a couple times but the times that it happens are so few and far in between that I try not to get upset. I see that FI is having so much fun with his friend but it’s hard for me to seeth inside. haha. They were being inconsiderate but see how guys get excited and they turn into 10 year olds you have to tell a million times to be quiet. Be thankful this was just a one time thing and not a regular occurence!

I get to deal with this weekend with my neighbour downstairs who is having 6 uni buddies coming to stay for St. Patty’s day. I know it’s in a different apartment, but this condo building is not totally sound proof. The next weekend I get to deal with this in my own home when my FI has his friend from college comes over. He’s not bad, but he does sit on the couch all the time and it’s annoying. 

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Make them do the cleaning up! They made the mess–it’s not your job to pick up after them. If they trash the kitchen and you can’t cook, then take yourself out to dinner. Seriously.

And your FI’s friend sounds like the least considerate houseguest ever. Apparently he’s a small child. And you know what small children need? Firmly enforced rules. (E.g. no playing loud music after 1am; say please and thank you; pick up after yourself.)

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Simple answer: 7 am + time to vacuum!!! There’s nothing worse

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@jasmine.hunter:  Lmao do this!!! 

 

Guys turn into such barbarians when they drink in groups….i don’t get it

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