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    sulaii211      

    Ah Facebook. Information at the speed of status updates.

    I guess it should only count if they got married right after you- but I'm 3 for 3. Three serious SO's and they're all married: 2/3 right after myself. I don't care these days but I laugh when I think I probably "trained" them for marriage.

    Their wives should thank me? (Or maybe not Wink!)

    How about you ladies?

     
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    mssushi    March 2009   Hershey, PA / Kaneohe, HI

    LoL! Isn't that the truth though, nothing like making the guy better for the next girl. Wink

    As far as I know, only one is married (and we still keep in touch). Although most of my exs (about 3) have baby's mamas. Thank goodness for birth control!!

     
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    firemanslady    April 18, 2011   USA

    NONE! Because they're all losers. ;)

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i think just one. we're good friends still, our families are best friends, and his wife's a little nuts. more like a lot nuts. i kinda feel bad for him, he's a nice guy.

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Well it would seem my ex is..he got remarried the day after our divorce was final!  lol!

    Oh well.  I feel sorry for his wife now as she's walking in my shoes.

    My other ex's aren't married.  It's wierd.  One is still single but dating yet again (my college bf) his psycho paralegal at his firm, and the other guy is still single and working downtown in a cardiac practice. 

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    None!  I like being the first. :)

     
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    Nexus-6    March 12, 2010   Portland

    I honestly have no idea and I'd like to keep it that way :)

     
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    PeytonL79    12/6/2009   DC Area

    Of my "significant" prior boyfriends (there are 3 that I would count, excluding my ex-H), they are all married.  Two have kids already, one has a kid on the way.  My ex-H is dating (my daughter's babysitter) very seriously and I wouldn't be surprised if he got married within a year or two.  Interesting - had never really thought about it that way.

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    LOL @ firemanslady that was hysterical! HAHAHA!

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    One for sure! It was such a shock when I found out, way after the fact. I think everyone was trying to hide it from me which really made me mad. The rest I have absolutely no idea b/c I don't keep in touch or really have any mutual friends with anymore.

     
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    Puggy    November 27, 2010   Southern Indiana/Northwest Florida

    Out of all of my ex's (I would say 3 significant), only one is married. He married the girl he dumped me for. But, I would definetly say, that I got the better end of the deal. He married a girl who doesn't even know who the father of her twins are, and I got my FI. Karma is a sweet, sweet, thing. :)

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    LOL NONE!  Im the first one!  I have a feeling a few are coming though.  One has been engaged for a few months but they havent set a date.  The other 2 serious ones have girlfriends.

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    I can't say for certain as i don't talk with most of them any more. Of the serious ones, i think only 1 is married. He married the woman he'd been having an emotional affair with before he dumped me for her. Ummm...of the non serious ones, one is getting married in January.

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    None, but really I have had like 3 serious relationships (including the one I'm in now) and my last ex boyfriend passed away, so there's only one that could try to squeeze in a wedding before me, but I doubt it would happen.

     
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    quiche    May 2, 2009   Chicago

    Of 4 "significant" relationships, 2 are married & 1 is engaged.  It doesn't suprise me - they are all really good guys!

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Yeah, one. Happens to be the guy that absolutely broke my heart, too. I found out he was married while she was pregnant and she had the baby while I was in Hawaii...kinda ruined that trip for me since I found out while I was still there. One of them will probably propose to his gf in the next 6 months, but he doesn't count cause he's an absolute idiot.

     
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    The immigrant bride    June 25, 2010   Santa Barbara, CA/Los Angeles, CA

    My first boyfriend is now married. We dated for a year and a half when I was 16. I left him and he started seeing this other girl a month later. I found out they go married in the sunday paper. He's a really nice guy and I'm happy for him.

     
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    I have to say, I'm happy for all of them. It's weird that I don't keep in touch with the one of them- I think his wife doesn't want him talking to me. It's weird because she "stole" him from me so if I don't have a probalem with it, why should she?

    But anyhoozerdoodles- I'm not about to cause any drama in someone's marriage!

     
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    Lovespearls    June 13, 2010   New York & DC & Austin

    Zero - They werent big commitment types - thats probably why they are my exes :)

     
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    Jaxx317    July 17, 2011   Brooklyn, NY/wedding in the Hudson Valley

    i've dated several guys, only 2 that i consider serious enough to call "exes." i wrote them both off and haven't sopken to either of them since, but through some yahoo/myspace sleuthing/stalking, i found out at least one of them is married, and it appears to have happened like 6 months after he joked about marrying me and immediately turned around and broke it off w/me (by e-mail, i might add). oh well! i'm with the MOMD (man of my dreams!) so it's all water under the bridge now...

     
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    skibobrown    July 31, 2010   CA (wedding in Bar Harbor, ME)

    I'm pretty sure that I'm only 1 for 3.  1 is married, 1 is definitely not married, and I'm pretty sure the last one isn't either. 

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    One got married to the girl he cheated on me with. One had a JOP wedding with a one-night stand he got preggers.

    I have interesting exes.

     
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    bwaychick    10/12/09   NYC

    One got married about a month or so before I did.  I know it doesn't matter, but I was glad that I was engaged before he got married!

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    On ex is divorced.

    One is married.

    And the final one (my real ex), I have no idea.

     
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    QueenBecca037    04.05.09   Atlanta, GA

    Zero.  And only one has a kid.  Not too bad...

     
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    LittleLynx    May 28, 2011   Canada

    None that I know of - one of them actually heard through the grapevine that I'd gotten engaged, and searched me out on facebook. We caught up a bit through messages (he was a good friend before we dated) and then he asked me to add him as a friend. I never heard another word from him after that, so I'm pretty sure he just wanted to creep my facebook page! Haha!

     
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    snake    September 18, 2010   richmond va

    none but one of the guys i dated has 2 kids with his rebound that he got with after i dumped his sorry butt.

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    Only one that I know of. He was an off and on relationship and got married and had a kid during the same time-a real prince of a guy....ha!

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    @ Nexus-6 -- I don't know and don't care either! I don't wish them to be unhappy, but it's better to not think about it or keep up with it, in my opinion. I also have geographical distance from them all, too, so that helps. I guess I'd hear unavoidably in small town gossip.

     
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    rainbow    January 1, 2011   Tampa

    None. No serious girlfriends or anything. Mostly cause they're all pretty useless, lol.

     
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    hisfuturewifey    October 13, 2012   Georgia

    Only one of my ex's is married.

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    One is married with a toddler now.  All others are still single as far as I know...

     
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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    I'm with Nexus.  I have no idea, and it's probably better that way.  I think I would have heard about one of the two other guys I dated seriously, but the last news I got of the guy I dated throughout all of high school was which college he went to.  And I'd really like to keep it that way!

     
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    bamm    June 5th 2010/August 15th 2010   Seoul

    I have no idea about one since he tried to 'friend' me but I refused his request.  I did have a strange situation though where FB told me via my cat's FB page (yes...she has her own)...that I should be friends with my ex's wife.  That ex isn't even on FB and obviously my cat has no 'friends' that would be remotely related to this woman who I had never even heard of until that time.  So how does FB know these things? Very very scary....

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    None! Does that mean I ruined them? 

     
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    AnamCara    April 10, 2010   Ireland/Connecticut

    I only really dated two guys before FI and they're both married.  Another guy I was in love with forever and 'friend with benefits' - he's still single...

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    Just one. My college boyfriend of nearly 5 years. Let's just say I was ecstatic to be married already when I heard the news. It's not that I wasn't happy for him it was just weird to hear the news since I haven't spoken to him in over 5 years.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    My high school sweetheart is still single. His myspace page still says things like, "looking for a sweet woman to share my life with. someone who understands me". stuff like that.

    The other dude I dated right before DH and I met got married. He broke up with me to give this girl a second chance (she cheated on him while he was deployed). They got married, he got deployed again, she cheated again, he came home and found out i was engaged--shot me a message saying he was sorry and missed out or something.

    Honestly, I took a big step up marrying my husband. He has a smart college degree (BF#1 dropped out and BF#2 didn't really go) and both guys I dated gained a massive amount of weight since we broke up. Granted, it HAS been like 5 years, but they are gross looking and terribly unnattractive now. BF#1 is losing his hair. I'm not shallow, really...I just like a guy who works out, stays in shape, and is very intelligent to compliment my own engineering background. I like that I can get help from DH or talk smarty engineery stuff with him. When i talk about work, he gets it--his eyes don't glaze over =]

     
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    lolaj       Queens, NY

    OMG!!

    I was only in other REALLY serious boyfriend before now. We were together for almost 6 years and we were engaged. We broke up about 5.5 years ago and yes her is married. I always tell my BFF that his wife should thank me or come talk to me to let her know what she got herself into. LOLTongue out

    This is his first relationship after me and he married her, what a loser! LOL

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    3 out of 4! I was actually invited to 2 of their weddings!

     

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