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Wow... That is all i can say is ... wow. I'll get back to you with a more thought out comment i promise....wow...
OH.....Wow. Holy shit. 
I didn't realize people were ACTUALLY that insane. He's dumb for still having sex with her even after your warnings though, but damn. She is NUTS. That is so ridiculous. That poor child.
ETA: Sorry for the incoherent, broken up post. I'm just....floored.
@imalittlebirdie: Right?! I 'm just angry. Angry. When we told this guy a while back that she was doing such things he refused to believe us. I mean I had text messages that could prove it and he didn't want to believe it. He's at fault too I guess. Is he? OMG
I can't tell you how big my eyes got when I got to the part about what she's been doing.
OMG. Neither of them sound like the brightest bulbs in the box, tbh. I do hope that baby is well loved and cared for.
omg, this is horrible! Does your cousin know she's doing this? Because he should; it would be wrong to hide this from him.
holy snot. why are you still friends with this person? This is someone I would cut out of my life immediately. She obviously has no moral compass. It is actually quite disturbing that someone would go that far to trap a person into marriage. It will be successful for sure (read with sarcasm).
Whoa... Talk about problems. She only wants to marry him to drop out of college and get pregnant? If HE knows she's been doing it, he shouldn't marry her... He's not so bright for having sex with her all this time either, but she has some serious mental problems.
If she IS REALLY pregnant, it's not his baby. Sperm dies once it hits the air. There is now way to successfully perform this sick and idiotic "procedure" she was been attempting. If there is in fact a baby in 9 months, make sure he gets a DNA test.
@Chix: Sperm does not die once it hits air otherwise there would be no way to do a semen analysis...which includes a test for motility.
Fucking hell.
She's mental. That poor baby.
@Chix: Um, no it does not, but that's not the point anyway. And please don't repeat those things like they are fact.
Wow to this whole story, but.... I am actually floored he continued sleeping with this obviously unstable girl after being told what she was doing in attempts to get pregnant. And who says to someone "If you get pregnant we can get married"?
They both sound like they are none too bright. Not that it excuses anything.
Ok you're right, I apologize, not once it hits the air but once it DRIES. Obviously it's not dried up in the condom but for it to survive and THRIVE it needs to be contained and stored properly. Not floating around in something full of spermicide, which does what? Yes, kills sperm. Obviously it's not thr point but this girl is a head case and if she is crazy enough to even attempt something like this, she is clearly insane enough to LIE about being pregnant AND/OR have actual unprotected sex with another man and claim it to be the guy who said he would marry her. I believe it's much more likely that she became pregnant by someone else (or no one at all) than by extracting sperm from a spermicide saturated "container".
@Chix: Yeah, and not all condoms are spermicidal, only the ones marked as such. It's not like a standard regulation issue that all condoms contain spermicide. Chances are pretty strong that if she was extracting sperm from a condom and became pregnant they were using standard condoms. Plus you really think a girl who is this hellbent on getting pregnant because she wants to marry this guy is going to be using spermicidal condoms during sex? I don't think so.
@Chix: If she does this immediately, there is no reason not to believe that she's not pregnant with this guy's baby. I worked in a hospital lab and have seen stranger things happen. :)
I agree with you KatyElle but if HE were hell bent on NOT getting her pregnant, HE would be using proper condoms. Regardless, he was warned about her and decided to ignore it. If the psycho IS pregnant with his child, it's his fault as much as hers.
@Chix: Yes, please refer to my previous comment "I am actually floored he continued sleeping with this obviously unstable girl after being told what she was doing in attempts to get pregnant."
I don't disagree!
@Chix: I completely agree! They BOTH have issues! I feel sorry for that child. :(
@TequilaSunrise: holy eff - I did not see your rant going there! Omg... I seriously only thought stuff like this happened in the movies... I don't even know what to think...
@TequilaSunrise: holy eff - I did not see your rant going there! Omg... I seriously only thought stuff like this happened in the movies... I don't even know what to think...
Wow!!!! What a nut job!!!!! The fact that people like this exist scares me a little bit...
It sucks what your friend did! But you gave your cousin a fair warning. He is an adult and he choose to sleep with her so it's his problem not yours.
Well...We went to her daughters birthday party today(not her b/f child). We had already told her we would be attending before everything happened. While she I'll call her "Jill" was busy "Jack" said he doesn't understand how she got pregnant. He looked and me and said I just don't know. I said...umm yeah "Jack" you do. He said what's done is done and we'll see how this pans out.
She pulled me aside and said Oh no he is questioning me!! I said....yah think?!
FI and I decided we don't want to tell him. We already told him she was attempting this stuff and feel that if we confirm it then he will be resentful toward the baby and we don't want that. Like other people said, he's an adult and continued to sleep with her anyways. I asked "Jack" if he would be rushing off to the court house and he said no way...Said he was gonna see how this went first. Then the four of us were talking and she openly said she was going to drop out of college. He then said, I always wanted a big family so I guess it makes sense if you just drop out of college and focus on kids.
PUKE! I really don't know how to handle this girl. "Jack" is close to us and we care about him. If we cut her off then we would have to cut him off. Not to mention "Jack" is family...
This is terrible. We just hope the baby is truly his and is truly loved.
P.S. for what it's worth he said they used withdrawal once, but he was sure he got out in time...
For what it's worth. He's half Spanish so if it's not his baby she would have had to be pretty crafty to find another man like him in our po dunk town lol. Not that she wouldn't go to that extreme tho!
@KatyElle: I also know that they were using normal non spermicidal condoms. I have it all on text which we showed "Jack". She was the one buying the condoms and. She would immediately take the sperm out after sex and insert it.
She's been trying this for a year and finally started tracking her fertility when nothing was happening...Sick right?!
Actually I think she started doing this like last March? We told "Jack" in the summer once I had proof over text.
@TequilaSunrise: I'm sorry, I'm sure he's nice and all but this guy is just DUMB. Not saying this girl isn't deceitful but damn. I for sure hope this baby has a nice life and never finds out about this insanity. How do you think psycho girl will react to not getting married like he promised?
@KatyElle: I honestly have no idea how she will react. I do think he will end up marrying her before the baby comes though. I think he's just shocked and in denial. He went to a catholic school all his life. All boys school for highschool and he never went to college. He felt guilty for having sex out of marriage as it was and he still believes there is a stigma for un married mothers. He admits that his particular school never talked about sex or women anatomy.
Yes he is a nice guy. He's not dumb...BUT when it comes to sex and relationships he's nearly blind.
He's always wanted a family at a younger age. He basically was just waiting for someone else better to come along. He even told her that at one point in there relationship. Maybe they deserve each other. lol
Moral of the story...Crazies and Clueless don't mix.
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Just got off the phone with my friend. She is ecstatic because she is finally pregnant. Yay! Here's the catch. The babies father is my soon to be cousin in law which FI and I are close with..Close with both actually. She has wanted to marry him for ever. They have been on and off for 5 years. Off long enough for her to have a baby with another man. She's slept around in there breaks when it was mutual that they would get back together eventually(yeah one of those relationships). He told my FI and I that he just likes being with her because he wants another person to come home to. He says she is just there...Not great not bad just there.
He has told her that if she ever got pregnant that they would get married immediately.
Well ladies. This girl has been syringing sperm out of the condom and putting it in the zone!!!!!!!!!! Yes, FI and I told his cousin that she was being deceitful in this way and I told this girl that she shouldn't try for a baby in such ways.
Despite our warnings to both it has now happened. In case u are wondering. She is 22 and he is 23.
I'm so mad right now! How could a human do that to another. She claimed she wasn't doing that anymore. Then out of her excitement she admitted to me that she did it once this month and that must be how it happened because he uses a condom and pulls out with it on each time. I kept questioning how it was possible so she finally told me the truth.
She was all...oh yay my dream is coming true! Now we can get married and i can stop going to college and have more babies" OMG I"M SO ANGRY! That poor baby!!!!
I just wish I didn't know. yuck. I should have just let her tell me a lie and left it at that. So mad. So mad.
I didn't think people were so sick...Mad
Thanks for listening.