Rant Here! Tell me who is wrong…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

I guess I am just amazed that out of the seven guys she has lined up none of them are available.

Post # 4
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

This gave me a good giggle.  

Post # 5
1482 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

Im sorry and im not being horrible but after reading all that my honest first reaction was who cares about guest and stupidity!!! Your wedding is too close to be worrying about a woman with 6 men who all bailed on her and if she was right or wrong. 

Her whole situation is a mess and she was wrong from the moment she added +1. 

Post # 6
1104 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I hate when small stuff snowballs into something big.

I think there’s a lot going on with her not originally supposed to be getting a guest, your and FI’s impatience with waiting for her response (understandably so), and her feeling unsure who would take her. She’s free to date 7 guys if she so chooses and I totally understand her not wanting to tell you wrong guy’s name. However, she should have communicated that with you earlier on instead of ignoring your emails.

She shouldn’t have added herself a guest, but then again if you didn’t want her to have a guest, I think you should have told her when she sent in the RSVP card. She shouldn’t have ignored your requests about who would take her. FI shouldn’t havesaid that remark (may have avoided the following heated discussion) and she shouldn’t have been catty in response. I guess everyone was in the wrong a little bit at some point.

In the end, she’s coming without a guest which is what was originally intended! I totally agree with you, as hard as it may be, do NOT get involved. Just let this little drama go away on it’s own and not get blown up even more.


Post # 7
3635 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m LOLing at her biggest fear being one of them finding out about the others.  How do you keep 7 guys from knowing that they aren’t your one and only?

Post # 10
8850 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

What a weirdo!  Props to your fiance for being so mature.

Post # 11
4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

You made a mistake letting her add on a guest in the first place without your consent.

Post # 12
312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@almostmrsj:  obviously, the Gods normally intervene on her behalf. 

This did give me a giggle, so thanks for posting. You both seemed to handle it OK that she added on a guest and then wanted to cause a tiff about it..but it was amusing that she said “Etiquette states it is ok to put down guest.” Uuh, no, not when you weren’t invited with a guest!

 Now you should clear it from you head and worry about it no more! Hopefully she doesnt pout too much on the wedding day. 

Post # 14
1104 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@HVbride:  I meant the remark where he said “Way to wait til the last minute! Lol” I think that was a little jokey way to say you took too long to respond and may have provoked her to say all that she did. Everything else FI said looked fine, but if he didn’t make that comment there might have been no further discussion.

Post # 15
2884 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

god thatd really irritate me. what a snippy response!

Post # 16
6799 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

@HVbride:  HILARIOUS. I’m glad you choose your battles wisely. This one isn’t even worth it, but it sure was good for a laugh! LOL

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