Post # 1
So fh and me are getting married in 4 weeks, and I’m 12 weeks preggers.
Back track 2 months, he bought an E ring and carried it everywhere with him while we were on our first cruise together, I’m sure he was gonna propose the last night as he had the ring box in his pocket and he dragged me all over the ship trying to find somewhere quiet on the outside deck, but everytime we found somewhere people came around so it didn’t happen.
So now a few weeks ago we went out on his boat and anchored at a small beach that was just us, he wandered off while I was looking at shells and when I walked up to him he moved fast to put me facing the other way, not fast enough though cause I saw he wrote Marry Me? in the sand behind him. Well he spent so long kissing me and looking in my eyes and being gushy that the tide came in and washed his work away.
He knows I know he has a ring and his Mom is up his backside about why the hell it’s not on my finger lol. So the wedding is in 4 weeks and I have yet to get my wedding band cause I want it to match my e ring which all I know is white gold and diamond, no clue if its micro pave or what type of ring would match best! Aughhh I don’t get if he’s waiting for some magical perfect moment or what lol but our lives have always been far from perfect or even close to and anything but traditional so I’m sure a perfect moment will not be easy to find. Just needed to get it off my chest cause it’s driving me nuts! I told him he might as well use it as my wedding band cause were getting so close 🙂 Anyone else had almost proposals happen?
Post # 3
- Wedding: November 2014 - Dreams Palm Beach, Punta Cana, DR
@Camgurl16: Hey Camgurll! I want to start off by saying sorry that he is making you wait so long! I give you thumbs up for being strong! (Congrats on being preggers too!). Now about the cruise, I’m a huge fan of cruises and I go on them often, there would always be people, no matter where you go, but who cares about them!? When it’s such a perfect moment and you two are in love and looking into each other’s eyes under the beautiful Carribean starlit sky, you wouldn’t even notice people! I understand that your FH wanted to make it special on the top deck, I was going to suggest the cabin, but how romantic is that?
About the second attempt on the beach, he was almost going to propose and the waves took down the Marry Me? Sign..who cares? The most important thing was that here he was proposing to you! Unfortunately so hard to find that perfect moment, but it is those imperfect happy moments that we remember the most!
Let me tell you what would make you feel a little better 🙂 I’m on a waiting game myself. I know my Bf doesn’t even have the ring yet, he said he would be sending in email to the jeweler by the end of this a week (hmm is that for sure?) and that he is going to propose three weeks from now. I’m on pins and needles lately and it’s such a waiting game it’s crazy! I feel sometimes I’m going to burst! Haha I hate waiting!
So don’t feel bad! Think about all the positive things! You are getting married in a month, you are going to have a baby that I’m sure you can’t wait to meet and you have a loving FH who loves you very much and wants his proposal to you to be special! Chin up and it will happen sooner than you expect! All the best!
Post # 4
@Camgurl16: I feel for you. I’ve been engaged for 10 months because I proposed to FI. And according to him, he still wanted to propose his way and thought our anniversary was a good time to do it. Well our anniversary was yesterday. And I didn’t get anything let alone the proposal he has been hinting at for the past 10 months. And I’m being “understanding” because some stuff has gone really wrong in our lives lately (mostly on his side) but it hurts a little.
He is so excited about planning the wedding and actually getting married but I would really like a ring g**d***t. Here’s to hoping both our men manage to get down on one knee before we actually say I do.