- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
Before anyone gets suspicious, of course, I am thrilled about marrying my FI and can’t wait to marry him (that is not the problem/rant-inducing reason at all!).
What I am SICK of is the following:
1) People making weight comments to me. “Are you sure you want to eat that? You have a dress to fit in to!”
2) “Omg, you lost so much weight!” – No, actually, I haven’t, and I really haven’t been trying. Not sure if you are trying to make me feel good with these comments or what… but it just makes me feel awkward and self-conscious.
3) People making the following comments, “I thought we weren’t eating carbs???” when I eat something that isn’t viewed as diet-friendly. Um, I never told you what I was and wasn’t effing eating so shut the eff up.
4) Getting asked a billion questions by my mother, then when I do something, being told by her “Well, people won’t like that, people won’t like that! If you do this, people will like it and dance/other random ass thing.” Ok, as someone who has been hearing these questions and comments since July, I DON’T GIVE A SH!T WHAT PEOPLE LIKE AND WANT. WE ARE GIVING THEM AN OPEN BAR, A VARIETY OF APPS, FOUR ENTREES, HUGE CAKE WITH THREE FLAVORS. OUR FAVORS KICK ASS. WE ARE ALSO NOT SUBJECTING THEM TO OUR PRIVATE CEREMONY. PARTY ONLY! THEY WILL LIKE IT!!!” ::Fume::
I’ve honestly been dealing with this crap since July, and I’m sick of it. I just want this party to be done with so the FI and I can have our lives back.
Now I see why people elope especially since our wedding will actually be small (60ish guests at a restaurant).
Sorry for the rant, but just needed to get it off my chest. Also, wondering if other bees had to deal with all this.