RANT-maid of honor unfriended me on Facebook?!

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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8720 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

First of all I think people take FB wayyyyy too seriously. 

Is she going through something? I believe there are two sides to every story and I would love to know how she feels. You sent her a letter to let her know you don’t appreciate how she’s acting but did you ever ask her if she’s okay, how she is doing, if anything is wrong, etc?

Post # 5
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3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

So you haven’t heard from her in months? I’d be worried. I might try contacting the mom.

Post # 6
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8720 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Bio_Chemist:  well then I believe something is going on with her and you don’t know about it. Why would someone randomly not even want to be your friend anymore (which is what this sounds like)? Maybe she doesn’t have the funds to be in the wedding and is scared to tell you? If you know money is an issue then I imagine it’s a big deal to not only buy a bridesmaid dress but to get here (are you in the US?) just for your wedding. I still believe there’s more going on here that we don’t know.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper

 While it’s very rude not to respond at all, you also have no idea about her circumstances. If there was something going on in her life your frustrated message may have been offensive to her and the last straw in your friendship. 

Post # 8
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1987 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m a bit confused…is the last time you two actually had a conversation together in September when you Skyped her? Or had you actually spoken to her via phone or Skype before she defriended you? If its the first scenario and you two haven’t spoken since September (with her ignoring all of your email and FB attempts), then I’d say she’s pretty much checked out of the friendship. 

Post # 9
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8720 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

prahajess:  she’s obviously okay if she was able to delete OP from Facebook….

Post # 10
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I feel like we’re missing something….are you sure you didn’t say something in your last chat that might have upset her? 

She’s obviously fine if she can go on FB and delete you and has read your msgs-don’t involve her mom.

Post # 11
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227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

It sounds like she’s checked out of the friendship.  I’m sorry, but it does.  If she’s still on FB and living her life….

Post # 12
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2355 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think it’s time to move on from this “friend.” It’s been 10 months since she’s talked to you. Contacting her mom would be kinda stalker-ish.

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper

Considering the time line, I have to agree that this person was not in the hospital or in a coma since September  if she’s able to read FB messages and unfriend you. So, yes, I’d say she’s sending you a message. I do wonder if she was going through a depression or something similar or if something happened in that last conversation between you two. 

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