Rant: Most Stressful Person (long)

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015 - Family Farm

This is silly. Give her $30 for whatever was spent and uninvite her. No one needs this.

Post # 3
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

this is exactly why I decided early on to not have a flower girl or ring bearer. Dear lord, this is a lot of unneeded stress! WTF is wrong with that mom?

I agree, thank the mom for all her “hard work” and apologise for her time and money (refund her), and just don’t have her daughter as a flower girl. The little girl wont remember either way, I promise you (except if the mom bitches about it to her, but that isn’t your problem).

Post # 4
913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard

OH HELL NO!!!  I would tell her Thank you but you changed the vision of your wedding and you will no longer be having her daugter as a flower girl. 

There is no way I would put up with that and allow that let alone still have her in the wedding. You still have the other flower girl. Just go with that one. This mom and her daughter are out of their minds. Really a 3 yr old being upset over a tiara? Sorry but that 3 yr old would have been over it in an hour after the fact. 

Be done with them…cut your losses now and not have them in the wedding. Don’t be a doormat and have them walk all over you and tell YOU what you are having in YOUR WEDDING…as I said in the beginning…OH HELL NO!!

Post # 5
1891 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Please, PLEASE, do not include that woman and her poor daughter in your wedding. If you think this is the end of the nightmare, you are wrong! She is just going to find something else to act crazy about. Go with the other girl, and do things the way you want. Mail her a money order with the money that she paid and a short letter explaning that they are not to attend (this way it is in writing). That whole situation is ridiculous. I am not having a flower girl, and the ring bearer is my son for this reason… Your wedding is not a pageant…

Post # 6
7119 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

She unfriended you because her daughter wanted to wear a tiara to your wedding? That’s some crazy. 

Post # 9
3014 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

If a four year old girl wants to wear a tiara… She can do it around her house anytime she wants. She doesn’t need to be in the wedding for that. Just saying.

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