(Closed) Rate my Bridezilla moment…

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Do i have a right to be upset about this?
    Absolutely, it was really rude for noone to even mention this to you. : (354 votes)
    90 %
    Maybe a little bit upset but it's not a huge deal. : (33 votes)
    8 %
    Not at all, you're not paying for the food so why should you get a say? : (8 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1194 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Yeah, I’d be angry… you guys agreed *together* and everyone went back without you and decided something different?  I’d be really really irritated.  I’d also consider telling them you no longer want their financial contribution, as obviously your opinion doesn’t count when someone else is paying!

    Post # 4
    Member
    858 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I think you have every right to be upset! I would be! Thats a big decisiona and you should have definitely been apart of it regardless of who is paying. To be completely honest…I woudl have been PISSED. you seem more calm than I would have been!

    Post # 5
    Member
    4499 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Yes! I would be pissed!

    Post # 7
    Member
    1125 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    While it does stink and I’d be partially annoyed by it, they are paying but not only that your fiance approved of the menu you say and it’s his wedding too. You’re undoubtedly making decisions without him, something like this he has a right to decide on in your absence, I’d tell him though any other major decisions should go through you as well.

    Post # 10
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    723 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I understand that they’re paying so they should have some kind of say, but it’s you & FI’s wedding so I feel you should get to have a say about what food you’re going to eat at your wedding.

    I don’t think it’s fair by any means that they went and changed it all, especially after you all decided together on what the menu would consist of.

    Post # 11
    Member
    9560 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2018

    I would be furious!! It is your wedding too, they should include you when talking about the menu. GRRR

    Post # 12
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    557 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @sharontobemarried:  I would be very upset. At least you deserve to be asked an opinion on the menu.

    Post # 14
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    11242 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Um, what. You are totally justified in being upset.

    Post # 15
    Member
    635 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    That is so bizarre. I would have been more than just teary-eyed! It’s good that you are so appreciative of them paying for it, but I don’t think you should just sit back and let it happen without having a conversation with your FI about it…do you even know what the new menu is?

    Post # 16
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    918 posts
    Busy bee

    I’m a really fussy eater so that’s why I’d be majorly pissed off if this happened to me. 

     

    Its really rude that no one thought to give you a call and discuss this with you. I’m sorry 🙁

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