Re-establishing frienships?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1015 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@FoolsintheRain:  If you want her back in your life, quit with the “should she? should I?” questions. We’re not always able to play by those rules, and maybe both of you have been in the wrong at some point in your interactions over the past couple of years. Reach out.

Post # 4
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7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You won’t lose anything by trying to reach out to her. If she doesn’t respond or seem interested be thankful that this happened so you know what kind of person she is. If she is a nice, caring person who values friendships you two should have no problem reconnecting.

Post # 7
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1734 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

Why do you want to get back in touch with her? I think that’s an important question to raise – it seems more like fondness and “we have a lot of history together,” instead of much substance. And from what you say in your opening post, it seems she has a habit of losing interest and fading if she feels there’s no more purpose to the whole thing. I get the feeling that you think of her (at least) as a little immature.

Sometimes, there is a better end to be had in letting a friendship fade out than blow out because you have grown in such vastly different ways.

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