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I think you choose people that are special in your life to do readings.  I don't think there is a tradition to it (not that I'm aware of at least!).

I'm trying to find two, it's harder than I thought, I don't want anything overly mushy and FI is pretty particular in his "wants" too.

None of mine are biblical, but we're having a secular ceremony (we aren't religious).  You'd probably have to ask your clergy this if you're planning on being married in a church.

How long is too long?  I think that depends on you and what your comfortable with and what your reades are comfortable with.  For us, we're trying to keep the readings to under two paragraphs.