- 3 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I know this has been said on multiple boards and I have a good feeling of what people are going to tell me if they respond, but just please…allow me to vent.
One of our best men hasn’t really contributed to much in terms of the wedding, has complained about it since day 1 (yet agrees to be a part of it). When FI’s bachelor party came around, he started off the night fine, but then became more distant as the night progressed (he didn’t stay for the whole party, because he had to get dropped back off at school so he could move it)….fast forward to 5 days before our wedding (this Saturday 9.28) and FI gets a text from his GF saying the “wedding is at a bad time for him” and that he has mid-terms the following week. He’s one of my and FI’s best friends, but I’ve just had to ignore him the past 2 weeks because he’s done nothing but whine and complain…and now this latest message makes me furious!! 🙁 FI acts like this doesn’t bother him and just lets it slide, which makes me more upset…i’m really sorry, just wish our “friend” would care just a little bit.