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Real or fake pearl necklace as a BM gift

posted 2 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Real or fake pearl necklace?
    Real- some imperfections... you wouldn't notice unless you were really close (3-4 inches away.) : (38 votes)
    83 %
    Fake- perfect, round, no blemishes : (8 votes)
    17 %
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    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    I decided that I want to give my BM pearl necklaces.  I love what they look like.  A very classic look.

    I found a great price because I bought 10 pearl necklaces. (i have 8 BM)

    I got them and they aren't perfect. I knew they weren't going to be perfect because I can't afford jewelry store pearl necklaces...they can be about $200 for one necklace.

    From far away, they look great.  You wouldn't notice the blemishes on some of the pearls unless you were inspecting them.  From a foot away, no one would notice.  But if you are about 3 inches from the necklaces you would. 

    Now, I'm a little concerned that my BM aren't going to be happy about getting them.

    I'm considering returning them and getting fake ones because fake one will be perfectly round, no blemishes and such.

     

     

     
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    heather25       New York

    That being said, I wouldn't want a pearl necklace as a BM gift.  Jewelry is so personal.  Just saying.  Sorry.

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    i love pearls so this would make me happy!

    i would stick with the real pearls, since some of your girls may not love pearls as much as me, and spending extra money on fake ones would be a waste.

    no one is going to get that close to your maids anyways!! :)

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    good question - i would very rarely wear a full pearl necklace (maybe a drop necklace with a single pearl), so it would really not matter to me.  maybe you could drop hints to your girls and see who would want one, and then get the real ones, and get the others something they make like better, around the same price range?

     
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    heather25       New York

    Oops, I forgot to tell you what I would want....the real ones.

     
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    heatherinmontana    10/31/09   Missoula

    I love imperfections! They make things unique... I wouldn't worry about it.  Pearls are always classy.

     
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    PurdueGrace    October 10, 2009   IN/PA

    Love pearls. I would much rather have imperfect real pearls than fake perfect ones any day.

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    I love pearls, I wear mine quite often... they're so classic. Real is always the way to go!!

     
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    pren79    10/17/09   SF Bay Area

    Well, another thing about real pearls is that they have to be maintained or they turn into a dirty color. It's just a hassle in my opinion. Again, jewelry is so personal, it's a difficult gift to satisfy everyone.

     
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    justthemaidofhonor    n/a   Coral Springs, Florida

    Real!

     
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    PoppySeed    October 25, 2009   STP, Minnesota

    They should be gratefull for getting a gift in the first place, regardless of whether it was real or fake.

     
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    lemondrop    March 13, 2010   Arizona

    I love the imperfections of real pearls, they are more special to me. 

     
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    sunshinebride    July 30, 2010   California

    I like melissa's idea of a single drop pearl pendant.  I think shelling out 200 a piece on a gift you're not 100 percent satisfied with, and one that is a very specific style (it's hard to dress DOWN pearls!) is something you may want to reconsider?  BUT you didn't ask for my opinion on that, so I say go with the real pearls if it's between real and fake :)

     
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    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    I think pearls is a fabulous idea! But definitely go for the real ones. I don't wear fake jewlery cause it harms my skin (very sensitive) so I would much rather have a blemished real pearl necklace than a fake one I couldn't wear.

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    if your BMs are women who LOVE jewelery and dressing up, I'd say stick with the real deal. Pearls are a classic look which can go with a wide range of clothing options. However, if your BMs almost never wear jewelery or dress up or give a fart about fashion, I'd consider returning the real pearls and going fake. They'll be easier to keep clean (as someone else has mentioned) and if they throw it in a drawer never to be worn again, its not like it was anything hyper expensive to begin with.

     

    I too am giving my BMs pearl necklaces (and matching earrings). i think its an elegant look for BMs. Something classic and really right now (since Pearls are in). I'm going fake since I can't afford real, but even if I could, i'd probably go fake because none of my BMs are jewelery people (well, my MOH is, but she's not a pearl woman).

     

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