Post # 1
I got engaged LAST NIGHT… We had talked about having the wedding in his home town, which is near the most magical place on earth. I have 7 RSVP’s already. They mean well but they are expecting their kids to be invited and they are planning on tying in my wedding day with their visit to the most magical place on earth.
really ? 7 people invited themselves in less then 24hours to me being engaged..
sigh .. vent over
Post # 3
Congratulations on your engagement!
Wow – those are fast RSVP’s!!!! I think I might be offended if people were treating my wedding as an “add-on” to their vacation. Hopefully by word of mouth they will get the hint that children aren’t invited, or perhaps they are able to find a very large mouse to do they babysitting while the adults attend the wedding!
Post # 4
I had this problem, my sisters friends when they heard I was engaged were like Oh I can’t wait to come to your wedding!. Not even people I had met more than twice. I just smiled politely and ignored it as a congratulations instead of being rude. Then when I started making invitations, they weren’t on the list. Of course my wedding is in another country, so I’m not expecting a lot of wedding crashers.