- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
When I got engaged, I said something to FI’s sister about being a bridesmaid. I would love to have her help and support during the planning and the wedding. She’s his oldest sister and the one we both feel closest to. FI and I decided to have 3 attendants each. I want my best friend since seven, L, and my closest college friend, A, in addition to his sister, M. But… FI has two other sisters. He doesn’t think they’ll be upset about it and said that if I’m so worried about it, I should talk to them.
Um, how do I even do this?! lol, I mean, do I just sit down and say “Are you going to be mad if you’re not a bridesmaid and M is?” These ladies are all in their 30s so I don’t think it’d be a lot of drama or anything but I just don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, you know? And I don’t really want to tell M that I don’t want her to be a bridesmaid after all. Expanding the bridal party isn’t really an option for us.