- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I get feeling put out, but why are you taking your anger out on your SO? He’s frustrated by the situation, I’m sure, and instead of being a team and angry together at the incompetance of the jeweler, you’ve turned on him as though he has control of the situation. Your special moment hasn’t been taken from you, but your bad attitude about it may ruin it foryourself. I think if you keep being angry at him about it, after you finally get your ring you will look back at how you have acted and regret it.
Try to be patient a little longer- you know the proposal and ring are imminent. Let the anticipation be something that sweetens the suspense for both of you and not something that drives an angry wedge between you and your SO.
@TeamAwesome: I understand what you are saying and appreciate your advice. I’m trying very hard to be patient and not be angry with him because I know it’s not his fault. But I also feel like it he was waiting on something (like I’ve seen happen before for his hobbies) he calls and hounds whoever until they can tell him when it will be in his hands. I guess I started to feel like if it was something that he really wanted that badly that he would be calling everyday until the situation was satisfactory.
It probably doesn’t help that he didn’t get me anything for Valentines and mentioned on his break from work this evening that he should go to walmart to pick me something up. My thought was, you know I’m already down and you didn’t even attempt to get me anything…nevermind.
I think i need to find something to keep myself good and busy for the next several days until I can be a nicer person.
As I was reading, I couldnt help but wonder….If maybe…He doesnt already HAVE it. What do you think. You know him. Maybe hes telling you this because he knows you know hes going to propose, but you dont know when.
I’m still one of the ”waitng” ladies on here as well. Heck we even have the venue booked and still no ring. My guy is sneaky so maybe thats why im thinking along these lines, but ya never know.
Just try and be your sweet self that he fell in love with. Its very emotional waiting, but Id rather have my SO have thoughts like “I love this woman so much and I want to spend forever with her” running though his mind before proposing to me than ” I can hardly wait to giver her the ring so she’s not so crabby all the time”
I hope you enjoy eachothers company this evening because thats what’s really important 🙂
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