(Closed) Really need to pout for a bit

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I get feeling put out, but why are you taking your anger out on your SO? He’s frustrated by the situation, I’m sure, and instead of being a team and angry together at the incompetance of the jeweler, you’ve turned on him as though he has control of the situation. Your special moment hasn’t been taken from you, but your bad attitude about it may ruin it foryourself. I think if you keep being angry at him about it, after you finally get your ring you will look back at how you have acted and regret it. 

Try to be patient a little longer- you know the proposal and ring are imminent. Let the anticipation be something that sweetens the suspense for both of you and not something that drives an angry wedge between you and your SO.

Post # 5
74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

As I was reading, I couldnt help but wonder….If maybe…He doesnt already HAVE it. What do you think. You know him. Maybe hes telling you this because he knows you know hes going to propose, but you dont know when. 

I’m still one of the ”waitng” ladies on here as well. Heck we even have the venue booked and still no ring. My guy is sneaky so maybe thats why im thinking along these lines, but ya never know.

Just try and be your sweet self that he fell in love with. Its very emotional waiting, but Id rather have my SO have thoughts like “I love this woman so much and I want to spend forever with her” running though his mind before proposing to me than ” I can hardly wait to giver her the ring so she’s not so crabby all the time” 

I hope you enjoy eachothers company this evening because thats what’s really important 🙂


Take care!

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