Really? So this is how you dump your fiance?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Wow, I’m so sorry. I know it doesn’t feel like it now, but it sounds like you’re better off.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Are you sure he has dumped you?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wow really? I hate when guys don’t have the beans to just deal with an issue outright. -_-

So now what? Are you just going to send him something telling him it’s over? 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

how did he dump you? by not answering the phone? im confused. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I wouldn’t want to be with a guy who couldn’t communicate with me anyways.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m confused as well. It doesn’t sound like he dumped you but it also sounds like he does not exactly want to be in a committed relationship.

If I were you I would be dumping him.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@ILoveMyKorat:  Are you 100% sure there isn’t some really crazy misundersanding? I mean, I would give him maybe one phone call. But if he’s like”oh, no, it’s fine” then end it once and for all over the phone. You don’t want loose ends. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

@ILoveMyKorat:  It doesn’t actually sound like he dumped you, but if he didn’t, or he calls, I sure as heck hope you dump him!! 

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I was dating a guy for over two years and this is how he dumped me. Just fell off the face of the earth, no calls, email, anything. It wasn’t until about 3 months later when I sent him one last email asking him if he felt better now. His response – no, I don’t feel anything. I guess I can believe that now, hah. You are better off without him!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

What the hell??? I’m sorry you are dealing with this. Please let us know what comes of it; I can’t imagine that he will just never call!

I would be calling his mother and asking to have that number, also fill her in on what is happening. I mean.. Common!

Post # 16
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Helper bee

@Artificial-Sweetener:  I second this.

Either he is getting cold feet or SOMETHING, and maybe his mom can help out. The least you can get out of contacting his mom is that phone number. I suggest hiding your caller ID so that he doesn’t recognize your number. That way he doesn’t ignore your call (unless he never answers unknown numbers/private caller ID’s).

Best of Luck. 🙁

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