Reassurance Needed – Sister Weddings

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
160 posts
Blushing bee

I think it could be fun planning your weddings together. And, it is good that it is DIFFERENT (destination vs. in town) that way, no one will compare the other’s choices. I will assume by your sister saying she did not mind, that you too have a good relationship, so don’t overthink it ! I would definitely think it’s fun to plan my wedding with my sister. And she probably doesn’t feel the little regret you do because, hers comes first, but it doesn’t mean it will overcast your preparation, nor will yours do hers – again, because they are two completely different ceremonies.

Have fun  !

Post # 3
2923 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If you were both having ceremonies and receptions in the same town I could foresee A problem, but because hers is a very small destination wedding, I think theres nothing wrong with it! 🙂

Post # 4
1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Your weddings are so different I dont see a problem. 

Post # 5
2927 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Bchicagos: It’s different enough and you were considerate! It will be fine. I kind of want my niece to celebrate her 2nd birthday at the morning after wedding day brunch — it will be so cute and fun since I never get to see her, but my FI doesn’t really want that. 

It’s hard to balance — you’re doing the best you can!

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