Etsy/Martha DIY contest
more by baffled111
Dress Anxiety!!!
POOR bride looking for a dress that looks like a MILLION bucks
more in Dress
altering a dress up a size???
What do you think of this ... and pls give me advice
more in Boards
Worst Day of my life! Everything went wrong!

Reception (Second) Dress?

posted 2 years ago in Dress
  •  
    1.
    Member
    245 posts
    Helper bee
    baffled111       Walla Walla WA

    I am seriously considering buying a cocktail 'reception' dress for later in the evening of our wedding. My dress is beautiful but I can't imagine dancing and drinking in it until the wee hours.

    Has anyone else bought a second dress to change into? If so, what does it look like and where did you get it? 

     

     

    (I have mixed feelings about this because it seems soooo extravagant to buy an expensive dress and spend hundreds of $ having it altered and then change out of it into something less flashy and cheaper. On the other hand, we're having a very small, outdoor and somewhat casual wedding, and I think my dress is a bit over the top as it is...I'm so conflicted!) 

     
    2.
    Member Icon
    Member
    413 posts
    Helper bee
    sminerva21    September 26, 2009   Chicago, IL/wedding in Upstate, NY

    Hmm, I'm really not a fan of the second dress scenario, just because, as you said, you should love your one dress enough to want to wear it all night long, regardless of how cumbersome it is. However, I understand why some brides want to do that, and you should do whatever you're comfortable with!

    I wanted to comment because I was in the same boat as you! We're having a small-ish garden wedding, and I purchased a strapless trumpet style gown that was pretty dramatic. A few months ago, I realized what I really wanted was a tea-length dress that I would want to wear all night. So I bought one, and that's what I'm wearing all day because I love it so much! It was actually a Priscilla of Boston BM dress that came in white (pic attached).

    I'm currently trying to sell my old one, and while it's hard, I know I made thr right choice. I guess just ask yourself, do you really LOVE your current dress? To me, the answer was no. And you can definitely get BM dresses in white on the cheap!

    Attachments

    1. Reception (Second) Dress? :  wedding dress reception dress cocktail dress Img s09_pb216.jpg (8.6 KB, 69 downloads) 2 years old
     
    3.
    Member
    2,961 posts
    Sugar bee
    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    I will be buying a second dress to be my reception dress. When I bought my dress, I absolutely loved it but as time has passed I kind of fallen out of love with it. I mean, it will still be beautiful but my FI and I will be dancing all night so a shorter (tea-length) dress will be more appropriate.

    Anyway, I haven't quite picked the dress yet but this is what I have looked at so far.

    Attachments

    1. Reception (Second) Dress? :  wedding dress reception dress cocktail dress Img dress.jpg (113.5 KB, 36 downloads) 1 year old
    2. Reception (Second) Dress? :  wedding dress reception dress cocktail dress Img David-s-Bridal-Ball-Gown--V9539-Taffet.jpg (21.2 KB, 35 downloads) 1 year old
    3. Reception (Second) Dress? :  wedding dress reception dress cocktail dress Img David-s-Bridal-Wedding-Dress-V9539_112.jpg (11.3 KB, 35 downloads) 1 year old
    4. Reception (Second) Dress? :  wedding dress reception dress cocktail dress Img Lily_Party_Dress_-_Floral_Applique.jpg (7 KB, 44 downloads) 2 years old
     
    4.
    Member
    245 posts
    Helper bee
    baffled111       Walla Walla WA

    I'm basically in the same situation. I think my dress is lovely but if I could do it over again, I'd get something different. I thought about buying a whole new dress, but since mine is already being altered and I plan to sell it after the wedding, getting a reception dress seems like the most sensible option.

    We're going off to spend a couple of days in a city: I am hoping that Nordstrom will have a perfect ivory cocktail dress. :) 

     
    5.
    2,299 posts
    Buzzing bee
    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    I WAS going to wear a second dress to the reception because the ceremony dress was so darn uncomfortable. But I recently found another dress that is so cool and comfy that I decided to wear it for both the wedding and reception. If you want another dress for the reception, go for it!

     
    6.
    Member
    382 posts
    Helper bee
    AliOopsieDaisy    July 2010  

    @<font size="2" color="#81a026">sminerva21</font> I just love that dress! I'm contemplating using that dress for my bridesmaids. Does it fit well in person?

     As for having 2 dresses, I haven't found my dress yet so I'm not sure. But I hope I fall in love with it and never want to take it off- so hopefully I'll be wearing it to the reception :)

     
    7.
    Member Icon
    Member
    413 posts
    Helper bee
    sminerva21    September 26, 2009   Chicago, IL/wedding in Upstate, NY

    @AliOopsieDaisy: Yep, the dress is amazing in person, and it fits me perfectly. I'm typically a size 8, and the dress size 8 was almost a perfect fit for me. In person, the skirt has a lovely flow to it when it moves, and I sincerely love this dress.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    hisgoosiegirl 31
    MissBoPeep 25
    Gemstone 23
    Beckster329 23
    BetterSherm 20
    Rivendeler 20
    Mrs.KMM 19
    beargoose 18
    ndreighton 16
    Rojocameo 16

    Dress

    User Posts Today
    longtime_no_Si 6
    pengoala 5
    sopranokris 5
    Nessa2012 4
    deborah.dehlinger 3
    couawilou 2
    TheJeanses2012 2
    kat2014 2
    lindseyl06 2
    capergrrl 2
    More