(Closed) Recommendations for sleep

posted 6 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I breastfed both of our kids, but the younger of the two did not like sleeping at night.  So, I started giving her a bottle of formula at night or making sure she had cereal at night.  It keeps their tummy full and when they’re sated they are most likely to drift off to sleep!

Also – my mother told me that I refused to fall asleep when I was a baby.  Her and Dad used to put me in the car and drive around until I fell asleep and then transfer me to the crib!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@eurekaanchovies:  I refuse to do the CIY method also. My son is also 5 months old. We are doing sleep training by starting a routine at night. After his last evening feeding, (I can’t BF so its formula) we put him in his sleep sack. Then I put him in his crib and start his sound machine. 

We let him hang out in there, I am still in the room but sitting in the rocking chair.  If he starts to fuss or cry I do not pick him up but just go over and gentley rock his body and talk softly to him.  I do this for a few moments to just let him know I am there. The back to the chair and repeat until he falls asleep.  The only time have picked up if he does start to cry pretty hard, then I do pick him up and rock him just to calm him down and put him back in his crib. 

We are also in the process of breaking swaddling him by using halo sleep sacks but keeping his arms inside the sack, once he gets used to having his arms not swaddled and can move them around a bit we will put his arms out one at a time. 

 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I’ll ditto @Sassygrn: ‘s advice that now would be a great time to start bedtime and nap routines.  It won’t solve your problems immediately, but over time it should help her transition herself to sleeping on her own. 

Additionally, if you prefer gentler methods, I would recommend the No Cry Sleep Solution.  It gives a lot great suggestions on how to transition your child to sleeping by him/herself using gentle techniques.  Remember that gentle sleep training is not going to give you the fastest results, but it should work with time, practice, and patience.  🙂

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

What helped us most was Tracy Hogg’s Baby Whisperer book. Hands-down, best sleep book out there, IMO. Practical, easy to apply, addressed all of our concerns that the other books didn’t, and seemed to have more realistic expectations for my family than Weissbluth, Pantley, or Sears.

I just loved it. I know her method won’t work for everyone or be a good fit for every baby, but I highly recommend it. Not just her Pick Up/Put Down method, but also her explanations of types of cries were SO helpful!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

And, in your case, here’s my 2 cents– it really sounds like you aren’t enforcing a routine– if you don’t want her to nurse to sleep, don’t let her. Pop her off before she’s totally asleep, nurse her before you start the night-time routine and in another room– whatever it takes so that she gets her last feed NOT as part of her falling asleep process.

She may cry about it, but if she does, she’s crying because she is protesting how she’s going to sleep. She’s saying “I want the boob, mom! That’s how I fall asleep!” And you just have to say “No, that’s not how you fall asleep now.” (Note, I’m not saying cry it out by sticking her in the crib and letting ‘er rip. I’m saying that even as you rock her in your arms– if you want to go back to that– she might insist on nursing, and if you don’t allow her to, she may cry.)

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

@eurekaanchovies:  When you start your routine, your baby will get the cue and after a few days, he’ll fall asleep around the same time every day. We started a nightime routine when our son was only 5 weeks old and he got it very quickly. He now sleeps through the night with only one feeding, at 11 weeks old.

We usually play with him, then switch to a calmer activity before bathtime. Bath is at the same time every day (give or take 30 minutes, depending on his naps for the day), then it’s the last feeding, burp, swaddle, bed.

I have this amazing book, but it’s in French and not translated… Basically, it insists on a predictible routine, not letting the baby fall asleep anywhere other than his bed, providing a calm environment for the baby to sleep in. And being aware that the ability to fall asleep on his own is hard work for baby, so he may protest (by crying) and that’s ok. You go and reassure him, but without picking him up if possible, and if not, you pick him up but put him down as soon as he’s calmer (not when he’s back asleep). Then when/if he cries again, you wait a little longer to go back to reassure him… Like, 15 seconds increments.

It worked for us, just with the routine and good sleep habits, we almost never had to let him cry.

Good luck!

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