Reconnect with recent ex?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
1716 posts
Bumble bee

If he’s not in a relationship, I definitely think you should go for it and get in contact with him. I think he would like to know how much better you’ve gotten. If the relationship is rekindled, great, and if it isn’t, at least he knows that a woman he loved has gotten past some big hurdles and is now much more healthy and stable. 

I think leading with your diagnosis, counseling, and progress, and then playing it by ear when it comes to mentioning re-starting the relationship is a good way to go about this. 

I’m so happy for you, by the way. Congratulations on the new you, the real you. 

Post # 3
952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Merritt Winery


tacotacotaco:  How amazing that you were able to rise above your fears and get help.  You should be so proud of yourself.  I agree with PP.  If he isn’t in a relationship, absolutely contact him.  Maybe don’t start right in with talking about rekindling your relationship.  Let him know that you appreciate his sticking with you for the time that he did because you know it was not always easy.  Talk about all of the strides you have made.  Let him see how you have really come into your own.  Show him how commited you are to your own personal journey.  Congratulations on your journey to recovery! 

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