Recurring Nightmares…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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1234 posts
Bumble bee

@renwoman:  I don’t have nightmares, but I do have anxiety about him getting in an accident or something. The idea of losing my SO suddenly absolutely terrifies me; I hate letting him get in the car to drive to work every night. Unfortunately, I haven’t found anything to do other than grin and bear it- I, lke you, really want to avoid meds. My mom is addicted to Xanax and my sister to pain killers so it’s not something I want to toy with. I just wanted to let you know you weren’t totally alone 🙂

Post # 5
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

You aren’t alone, trust me. Even being 21 and 26 I get scared. FI works with heavy machinery and digs holes for a living. I’ve heard too many horror stories about holes crashing in or machines rolling. Just make sure you tell him every day you love him about nd don’t go to bed angry. Because like every person, no matter age, you aren’t promised tomorrow.

Post # 6
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258 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@renwoman:  Nope but I do keep having nightmares about my proposal, (waiting bee) and its been awful. I mean like nightly/every other night. Last night it was actually regarding someones post about a ring they hated on the bee.. yep..it ended up mine in the dream proposal.. The Bee’s told me it was just my head focusing on one thing too much. 

 

I think in your case you are just inching so close to getting to spend your WHOLE life with this man and its making you in awe/a little scared. You just feel good knowing that you are so secure in your relationship with him that you cannot picture ever having to be a day without him and that is reflecting in your dreams.. 

 

I know it sounds crazy but if you can, try to stop thinking about *your entire life together* for a little while and just focus on *right now* and maybe this will stop reflecting so much. I hope so at least because that has to be so sad for you.. <3 Good luck honey.

Post # 7
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292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@renwoman:  I haven’t had this dream.  I’ve had others like, I think that I’m marrying him, but realize he sitting in the church and I’m marrying someone else, who turns into a big jerk.  I’m so upset!!! Felt cheated, mad he just sat there, scared.  I know you can’t predict the future, I found peace, first when I woke up and knew it wasn’t true.  I also talk to my FI, told him the dream.  He rest assured me that he would fight for me.  Just knowing he was there help a lot.  I will be praying for you that God gives you peace, and protection over the both of you!

Post # 9
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@renwoman:  FWIW my fiance laughs it off too when I tell him I worry about him. Pushing snow in the winter time on bad roads and him being gone for days makes me worried! I’m a worry wart, can’t help it. He just says “don’t worry about me, I’m tough” I think it’s a man thing, their moms worried about them, not their wife/gf/fiance even though we do.

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