Registry etiquette

posted 1 year ago in Etiquette
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Busy bee

@mybelle84:  since you are having a party i feel like the people coming may want to bring you a gift… but i would not register. normally people buy you a gift when they attend your wedding, but if you register then aunts/uncles/cousins who live far away will feel like they need to get you a gift and that isn’t fair.

my sister and her husband eloped and when they told everyone they got married and were having a party at their home it offended a lot of my family. I was hurt that they would get married without telling us, and it was kind of annoying that they did that and still expected presents

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Sugar bee

Not tacky at all, in my opinion. People will want to get you a gift so it will be nice to have a registy for them to look at.

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Newbee

I am doing a similar thing - destination wedding for 2 and then party at home.  I did a small registry (this information will not be included with invitations or anything) but is there should someone want to buy a gift.  I wasn’t planning on it, but got a lot of questions about one from friends and family about where I was registered so figured I might as well.  I don’t expect anyone to buy me a gift, but if they want to, the registry is there for them. 

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Buzzing bee

I don’t think registering is ever tacky. 

 

It’s only tacky if you demand people get you things or something ;)

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