- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
Hey everyone, me again, just some thoughts running through my head so I want to ask them before I forget… make sense??
Well, the only ones in my VR “party” will be me, my husband, and our 3 kids. Along with a DJ (we will have no officiant, my eldest son will act as officiant since its just a Vow Renewal) the DJ will announce things, etc…
So, now comes the dinner. The DJ will most likely be a friendor. I don’t mind payiing for HIS dinner, but they have like 6 kids and I do not want to pay for ALLLLL of the family to have dinner…. how to handle this?
ALSO… I would love for my OOT guests to come to the dinner, but unfortunately we do not have hte money to pay for them. (we are on a pretty tight budget) In their bags could I put “we are having dinner at such and such place at such and such time, if you care to join us… we hope to see you there” or some kind of wording like that? So they know that if they choose to come, they will need to pay? Unless of course we decide to do the BBQ thing, then it will just be cheap and everyone can just come which may be nice… Just thinking out loud I guess, but would love to hear ideas on how to handle this.