- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Ok so heres the deal. My parents are paying for the entire wedding. FI and I offered to pay for some of it and they wont let us. We are very lucky since we can spend the money on our honeymoon. Anywho heres the issue, the Rehearsal dinner. FI’s parents are divorced, mom remarried and lives in Flordia, FI lives with his father up here in NY. His father seems to be the main issue. He thinks that the whole big wedding thing is a waste of money. He didn’t even go to his own daugthers cruise wedding.
Anywho the real issue is bringing up the rehearsal dinner with him. My FI’s Aun Carole orginally said that we could have it at her daughther’s pub which would be super cool. And FFIL agreed to this. Nothing else has bin said about it since. And with all his negative attitude I dont know how to bring it up with him? I’ve tried in the past to discuss it and he kinda blew me off. FI said he would talk about it with him but I think hes nervous to too. Here we are five months out I’m just getting antzy about if we will need to book any place ourselves Any ideas or help would be great.