Post # 16
If a guy doesn’t want to be exclusive or doesn’t want you to be his girlfriend, he’s just not that into you.
If a guy doesn’t do the above but knows you want those things, and then lies and strings you along. He’s an asshole.
I promise boys get a lot nicer as they get older
Post # 17
I definitely agree with the other bees. This guy sounds horribly disrespectful. Nobody should make you feel sexually used. And you should always demand what you want in relationships.
Sex never solves anything. If you’re not getting the respect and commitment you’re looking for sex will not make it better.
Post # 18
Honestly bee, this does sound like a typical college relationship in which I would advise to be done with. It sounds like he was playing you and has been for a while. It appears he was seeing the other girl at the party and quite possibly her room mates too and he just turned it around to make her look like the crazy one. He wouldn’t commit to you after numerous times saying he wanted to see other ppl? What more do you need? Why do you even give 2 shits about this guy?
Move on. Be with someone who wants to be with you and who respects you. From personal experience I always thought something was wrong with me, I wasnt good enough, and I kept letting myself be subjected to this type of behavior. It can really damage your self esteem so you have to know you deserve better than that.
People will tell you who they are loud and clear, you just have to believe them when they do. This guy is shady and I’d advise never speaking with him again, quite frankly.
Post # 19
Do you want someone who takes a year to decide he can stomach being exclusive with you, or someone who can’t believe how lucky he is to call you his girlfriend? This guy is wishy washy at best and a douchbag at worst. So much drama already. It shouldn’t be this hard. You guys obviously want different things. Just cut this one lose and find a guy who is ready to commit and doesn’t play games.